Are you feeling confidence enough every time you meet new guys? Be careful, because you don’t have any idea what’s in their mind at the first time they meet you. Want to know why? Perhaps, it’s the change if he plays his romantic cards right, he might just get lucky. Or, it’s just the way he wants to get know new girls so easier for him to get the right move and know the right step to take next. What he afraid about is to look dissonant and uncomfortable the time he start the conversations and suddenly stuck half ways and don’t how to handle the situations when you are more than he expected. So, the best things coming from men brains is make some fast conclusions about new girls they meet for the first time to save the day.

Ermmm, whatever the reason – when men meet a women for t he first time, he scans her senseless in a process that’s part subconscious, part blatant and all speed. You just don’t aware of his eyes because he knows what he supposes to know and what is not. Male brain can work like supercomputer given the right stimulus when the situations become insistent. Within the amount of time it takes you to sit, order and receives your drinks, he thinks he’s got you sussed. Still can’t figure out why men feel you’re “unapproachable”? Check out these indicators which lead to his conclusions and that you might not be aware you’re sending out.

Signal #1 Belong to somebody or….?

The first things men want to ensure is whether you’re already have someone special or if you still have voids to fulfill. It’s impossible for them to ask you directly, so they are going to surreptitiously scan your fingers to see if there’s any attractive emblematic jewellery stick on one of them nicely. Well, don’t think it’s only us, women who did it, there’re guys too. Why? It could be for safety and afraid if they was dealing with a wrong person especially a married woman. Well, their observations won’t end here. Although they find out the fingers was clear, they won’t make conclusions on the spot but this time gives attentions on your conversation: How much you use words like “we” or “us”, because it gives a deep meanings to them. The less you use the words, the more interested they become.

Signal #2 Forever or….?

Why question things like “For fun or forever?” if they were clearly that you’re still single? Well, men know what types of girls they want to be with seriously and whose could be just for fun. They just don’t want to get trap when they’re not ready for any commitment or get tie with any responsibilities. However, that’s not the only reason because they also looking for girls which they can trust to be their soul mate and to make sure what to do if there’s something happens between them, maybe, later. During the conversation, part of their mind will compiling a list that goes something like, “She’s gorgeous, but….”, “She’s smart and funny, but….”, “She’s look like interested in me, but….”. You should be worry if there are so many buts after the compliments because it’s mean the more he will unleash his seduction arsenal in an attempt to have some fast fun. And you’re in his list for long-term prospects if he’s using fewer buts in the middle of his thought. How do you spare yourself from falling for this? Beware the too smooth man!

Signal #3 Does you look restrict or….?

Well, it’s hard when we knew that men judge us in every aspect and of course they do some comparison between good and bad in their own point of view. However, nothing we can do about that because we, girls also do some evaluations when we know new guys or on the road to get know far more. Well, the sad thing is when they do asking themselves something like, “Does she look raunchy or restricted?” We can’t deny that a man swimming in the warm pool of singledom is generally seeking a woman who will go off like a forgotten prawn sandwich in bed. Is that because they don’t find prim princesses more attractive, maybe?

Actually they can see numerous indicators whether you’re comfortable enough with your own physicality or not. Actually they can get a lot from the conversation; your ability to joke about the business of sex without going too much and can discuss it openly without feeling uncomfortable. There is something else which also attract their attentions. The first handshake when introductions are made will given them the first impression and what’s more obviously are making eye contact or those undeniably alluring touches such as “incidentally” brushing their knees with yours. These all signal a woman for whom physical contact is a part of life – and a potentially an enjoyable one at that.

Signal #4 Sophisticated or….?

Does it matter what kind of outfit we wear in men eyes? Surprisingly, yes because number of men can neatly split outfits into either it sophisticated or sexy. They know if you dress to show off your body or to show off your clothes. Both dressing given different meanings to them and neither is any better or worse than the other and attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. Unfair? Well, the truth never that sweet, right? And men don’t take any longer to identify which category you are if you’re wearing something that can show even a little cleavage and is not self-consciously covering the cleavage. Don’t be sad because they already marked you in their mind as one with fewer body hang-ups. Opssss…and therefore probably a firecracker between the sheets. Well, maybe it’s a bit of leap to make, but that’s the truth. However, women who opt for sleek and fall into sophisticated category given them a challenge because they have to take more time to discover just how naughty your naughty side is. And you know what they say about the power of anticipation….weird?

Signal #5 Wild or….?

We all know nowadays women are daring to do the wooing and some men do like if women take the first move. However, more men are more likely if they are the person who do the wooing and want to remain the same. Well, it might be something that related to men ego. We can’t deny it – men who always have that authority from a long time ago and they are always been thus. They always know what to do, the styles, the ways - all inside them naturally. They know how to act charming, when they needs to make jokes without being lame, know how to show their interest without coming on too strong and understand the way to talk to your heart through your eyes. Well, this romantic stuff - we should trust them to continue the tradition, right?

However there are some guys who changing skin in the minutes when a woman makes it clear that she is keen (or the guy concerned has been told beforehand). Some of the more despicable variety of man might equate your forthrightness as a guarantee he’s going to bed you, but most are just so flattered that they transform from wild to tame. Without the assumption that they need to impress you, they melt into a more relaxed version of themselves than you otherwise might have encountered. Ermmm…they might be miss the irony that they’re far more attractive that way.

Signal #6 High maintenance or….?

Whether you’re high or low maintenance, both also makes them worry unreasonably. So, whatever you do from ordering the drinks and foods to every words you speak out, all they observed with detail because that can reveal a great deal to a prospective man. All your doing showed him whether you’re high or low maintenance. If you asking for a simple drinks without too much add here and there, you just score big points as they are construed as uncomplicated, down to earth and able to enjoy life’s simpler pleasures. Conversely, they will brand you as high maintenance if you ordering something expensive and then start adding a twist of this, none of that and anything on the side. You might scare them because high maintenance to girl means she not only deserves special treatment but that the world should be delighted to provide it. It’s an attitude that speaks of covert superiority. Ermmm…Unfair? Perhaps. True? Every single time.