http://www.luckylily.com/relationship/secret-of-happiness/ A lifelog on relationship, pets, food and beverages, interesting stuff Mon, 12 May 2008 07:08:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.4 http://www.luckylily.com/relationship/secret-of-happiness/#comment-54441 Thu, 06 Dec 2007 11:18:59 +0000 http://www.luckylily.com/relationship/secret-of-happiness/#comment-54441 Hi David, thanks for dropping by. I quite agree with some of your ideas. To find true happiness in life, we needs to try and find the ways on how to achieve it. As you said, 'see the happiness as a "side effect" of doing things we enjoy and find fulfilling'. We cannot find true happiness if we never enjoy and feel great on things happen around us. To accept negative messages as facts only might be not the solution but accept it as a 'hop stone' to grow stronger, grateful and thankful on what we have today and attempt for tomorrow. Left behind yesterday thoughts and learn from it for better life. Get rid of the negative feelings and learn how to feel grateful all the time and there where you can find the true happiness. Thanks for sharing with us and you're always welcome to share your thoughts with us. Hi David, thanks for dropping by. I quite agree with some of your ideas. To find true happiness in life, we needs to try and find the ways on how to achieve it. As you said, ’see the happiness as a “side effect” of doing things we enjoy and find fulfilling’. We cannot find true happiness if we never enjoy and feel great on things happen around us. To accept negative messages as facts only might be not the solution but accept it as a ‘hop stone’ to grow stronger, grateful and thankful on what we have today and attempt for tomorrow. Left behind yesterday thoughts and learn from it for better life. Get rid of the negative feelings and learn how to feel grateful all the time and there where you can find the true happiness.
Thanks for sharing with us and you’re always welcome to share your thoughts with us.

]]> http://www.luckylily.com/relationship/secret-of-happiness/#comment-54083 Mon, 03 Dec 2007 20:44:42 +0000 http://www.luckylily.com/relationship/secret-of-happiness/#comment-54083 Can I add - (1) get in the habit of praising yourself, being positive about what you have rather than what you don't have. We receive so many negative messages in our life its easy to accept our negative automatic thoughts as facts. (2) Don't have happiness as a goal in itself, but see it as a "side effect" of doing things we enjoy and find fulfilling. Can I add - (1) get in the habit of praising yourself, being positive about what you have rather than what you don’t have. We receive so many negative messages in our life its easy to accept our negative automatic thoughts as facts. (2) Don’t have happiness as a goal in itself, but see it as a “side effect” of doing things we enjoy and find fulfilling.

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