Relationship Failure – 7 Women Weaknesses or Bad Dating Habit That Can Turn Off Guys

“This is not going work out.” You realize it when he attend to so many calls whenever he with you. And when you check the list, most of the calls are came from women. Many a woman has been puzzled when dropped like a hot potato by a man? You might be one of them. Why and how you want to know? Or you know but you don’t realize it? Does it something to do with your dating habit or the attitude that you always practice for? Well, it’s not so easy to admit but sometimes when you know the truth you might save yourself from broken heart again and again. It’s hurt to know but below are some of the fact that you should read and understand. It could save your relationship and you will get your dream guy, of course.

Dating Sinners #1 Pride

It’s ok to be proud of yourself…sometimes, but not all the time especially when it’s a time when you meet new guy and trying to impress him about yourself. Nothing wrong if you want to talk about yourself and everything you had been done that make you so proud of yourself but there were no always ME in every conversation as it will make your partner bored and feel that there’s only your life….and how about him? Give him a chance to talk about himself. Ask him a question, a life he have, what he want and what he going to do. Give some compliment whenever necessary, but don’t go too much as you will make him feel uncomfortable. Avoid taking too much time talking about yourself or your life only but bring him into the conversation. Make the meet for both of you and not only you. Talk about yourself but trying to attract his attention by asking for his opinion..It could be good.

“I love to be with a brainy and confident lady, but when her comings and goings are the topic of every conversation, and she shows no interest in my life, then I just give her the boot,” says Brandon, a brown-eyed cutie. His friend Ryan concurs, I don’t like a girl who is self-absorbed and thinks she is all that, narcissism is such a turn-off.

When it comes to men, it’s important for women to ask questions about him and show a genuine interest in his life. Men like to feel special; the more often he feels it, the more often he’ll return the gesture.

Dating Sinners #2 Gluttony

Women are born to be loved and they can spend and give the whole life to a men she think she with love with. But how about giving a whole life and love to the wrong man? Some of woman looking for a man that can give them everything they want without thinking of lasting relationship just because of the promise  a guy give to them. Then a woman will dream of a family, children and a loving husband which is only the dream that never come true because of wrong selection of the man where this type of desperate woman only looking for guy that can love her, step over her, and a woman does not push back until it’s too late and there’s no turning back.

Woman always do a bad selection of boyfriend just because of love without realizing that the attitude of gluttony become a magnet for men who’re not interested in a serious relationship. Most of woman mistake is dating a married guy and dream of getting married with a devoted, having babies, but paradoxically gets involved with the wrong men. Women in love never realize that dating a married guy is a losing proposition. They always promise to leave their wife, but never do!

Lots of girl are guilty of gluttony. They doom their love lives by giving their heart to the wrong type either married men or guys who are commitment-phobic. These women pursue hopeless matches or abusive relationships, and no amount of friend or family interaction and advice seems to help. They set themselves up for pain and suffering by tolerating and even encouraging, bad boy behavior. You will never find happiness and true love if you’re glutton. Here’s your new mantra: I deserve better, and watch Thelma and Louise for girl-power inspiration.

Dating Sinners #3 Avarice

Avarice is greediness, and you probably know a girl or two who is greedy. No, no, we don’t mean greedy in the sense of desire for money, but greedy for attention. Most of girl feel that the attraction on them only can be seen by guy if they do something different that can show their advantage and attract other people around her. However, too much of action that attract others attention sometimes can make men turn off. You flirting with other man in front of him and don’t care about his feeling of course can make him think that you’re not serious in relationship. Reveal too much part of the body while partying and not concern about his opinion will make him think that he’s not important to you and you also don’t care if he leaving you.

Even if you want to get attention from your partner, you couldn’t do something that can make him bored and worst get fed up of your overacting attitude. Greedy of being everyone’s attention will make you forget who you really are and sometimes you can lose your own consideration. You could hurt yourself, your partner, family and people around you. And when you’re to obsess about everyone’s attention you don’t realize that you had done something that actually really humiliating. Ask yourself: “What would I think if he was acting the way I am now?” If you don’t like the answer then it’s time to change direction.

Dating Sinners #4 Lust

It seems weird when girl wanting the sex at earlier stage of relationship more than guy do. And of course it can be freaking too. You might be a very modern woman and live with very high class of living life… and of course for you make a first step before a guy do is normal… but do you ever think what he would think with your very fast response…on the second date? It could be shock to him. He might be just start to knowing you, enjoying the time with you and could be looking for love in you… And you spoil the night where he want to say something special to you. Some guy says, “I like to get know a woman first, take my time, before we get horizontal. If a woman thinks she will win my heart by having sex on the first few dates, she is deadly wrong. I might continue seeing her for the sex, but I certainly won’t take the relationship seriously.” Another guy confessed, “When a girl rushes to get intimate wit me early in the relationship, I can’t help but wonder if she quick to jump in the sack with every guy she meets.”

Women also sabotage a good relationship by lusting after other men, often because of their insecurity. “I was stunned, I felt so betrayed,” reveals a frustrated guy after he caught his girlfriend kissing a stranger at a bar. They had been dating for more than a year, and were even talking of marriage. The guy broke off the relationship right away. Her sin of lust had irrevocably doomed their relationship. Being conscious of who you are acting are always important pieces of the dating puzzle. Build a friendship first, then move it into the bedroom. If you move between the sheets too soon, prepare for a one-night stand – or one week – if you’re lucky.

Dating Sinners #5 Envy

Woman is famous with jealousy and of course this is one of the great thing they can do all the time. It’s a gift which make women tend to be more sensitive, more awareness and being alert all the time and men was gift with their softness to be tackled and melted by other women.  The green eye of envy, jealousy, is the cause of many failed romances. Most of the time, it has nothing to do with the reality of the situation. Most experts agree that jealousy is generally a symptom of low-self-esteem and insecurity. Is the green-eyed monster playing havoc with your love life?

Some women, a carrier women especially the one that really successful in their carrier having problem on their relationship. Some of them very good on managing their job but when it comes to the man in their life, everything upside down and can’t think straight. It’s not wrong to felt jealous but make it in right time and right way. You don’t have to overact to tell him that you’re jealous but you can face him and speak up your mind. Ask him about your prejudice and tell him what you feel and what you want to avoid the continues misunderstanding. Tell him that you’re concern about the relationship and his feeling is the most important to you and if he wants to have a talk you’re always there. you can try this to attract his attention so that he can open the mouth and talk. He might reveal his problem and of course at least he feel you’re always there  for him.

If you’re suspect your man is unfaithful, ask him once. If you feel you need to ask again don’t – either believe him or break up with him. That easy! You can make a right decision for your future and don’t let him make a decision because of your wrong thought and ended dump by him.

Dating Sinners #6 Sloth

Many women stop working at our relationships once they are snag a man. She’s petite and perky and has not had a lasting romance in ages, and she has no idea why her relationships are painfully brief. As the relationship progress, you kind of forget about how to manage yourself anymore. You only think about him, to love him, make he happy but you forget about yourself… to maintain your appearance, the same person he ever fall in love with. You losing yourself over time and you never realize it. Do you think he not care? Do you he didn’t see your transformation from the hot girl to a messy hair girl? Why didn’t you spend sometimes for yourself, nurture and make sure you’re still the same person he ever know.

It might be a very simple and little things and shouldn’t be a big issue that could break your relationship, but always remember that men always want a woman who know how to take care of herself which mean always ready for anything. If you’re one of these women, stop nurturing the remote control and nurture your man – with love and all the naughty , fun and spontaneous things you used to do.

Dating Sinners #7 Anger

At the beginning of the relationship, men are watching for sign of trouble to come. If you’re always up for a fight, and bitching is your usual mode of operation, you’ll no longer be girlfriend material. Guys are generally conflict-averse, and any sign that you will go psycho on him in the future will send him running. If at the first date you already show your anger by bitching others and bad-mouthing everyone, he already knew that you’re not the right choice as one day all the things will turn back to him. No matter how beautiful or smart you’re, when it comes to bad mouth attitude non of the guy on the earth really like it.

Out-of-control anger is not sexy, especially on a woman in a pretty dress and kitten heels trying impress a man. Deal with anger in a calm tone and use conviction in your voice -  you’ll be considered strong and assertive instead of bitchy. So, if you have been committing the dating sins listed here and sabotaging your chances for everlasting romance, now is the time to evaluate your actions and start fresh on the road to a successful, long-lasting relationship.

Clinical social worker, Ira Kaufman, who focus on working with people in improving the quality of their relationships, advices: “In my line of work with men and women, I have them focus on their life goals. If a woman’s are to be in secure, healthy, committed relationship, her behavior must reflect that. Feelings such as pride, lust, anger, only push or pull her off-track. Remember,behavior leads and feelings follow – not the other way around.”