When in relationship, most of women do feel some changes in themselves especially when it comes to their lifestyles. Maybe you also feel the different after few years in relationship. When you’re single – you have freedom, your life flexible, having lots of friends and always dress up to date all the time. Now everything seems difference – you never care about yourself, your appearance or everything you do in your single life. You spent most of your time for him and always do what he wants to do until one day you find out you’re not the same person as before. Maybe you never expect your life may change that much after been hooked. However, it’s all depends on you – ask yourself what you want. What are you thinking? Ditch the “can’t be arced” attitude and get some of that single girl sass back into your life. Remind yourself about your early date with him – the first time you met him, you get cold, blushed and can’t say even a word. And when he hugged you? You thought you’d have to scrape yourself off the ceiling.

Go….go…go…Single.

Why guy feel that single women are attractive? Is it because how you take care of yourself? Stay being yourself and always put your authority to be priority number one will keep yourself shining all the time. It’s doesn’t mean you never care about him or your relationship, but never ever think if you put him or your relationship as top priority, you’re going to have happy and lasting relationship, but you might be having high possibility of losing your own identity. So, don’t adopt the motivation of a stone koala now, but stays enjoy your independence and at the same time appreciate the present of your partner and learn to respect each other privacy.

“The only healthy way to have a relationship is to make sure you’re priority number one,” says Amanda Ferguson, psychologist and author of Life Works (Harper Collins). “Make yourself your main project and do things that develop your mind and body. Independent interests are critical to maintain a sense of identity and keep the relationship stimulated. Confidence and self-esteem are the keys to innate sexiness.

Powerfully passionate

Being passionate doesn’t mean it’s something to do with your sexuality or sex, but rather your attitude to life. How you control your life – from work, home, sleep and relationship. Remember, he fell in love with the vibrant woman who knows how to enjoy life, get along with others and manage herself. Take the colour out of the equation and the new, not-so-improved monochromatic version looks as exciting as a used tea bag. “When people get lazy and don’t develop social skills outside of their relationship, they become stunted,” says Sue Ostler, author of Get On With It!

No matter how interesting you are but if you only know how to talk about work, people will get bored at last. So, leave out all the monotonous details and keep it to one or two gripes. And work on your social life outside of the relationship. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and you will have something to talk about when you spend time together, making an effort outside of the couple adds to the richness of your relationship.

Pride and Groom

If before you groom yourself well, but why now it seems hard to do even once a week? You didn’t remember when is the last time you go to salon or spa to pamper yourself. You only realize you’re not up to date and look messy when your friends told you. Maybe it’s time for you to take a deep look on yourself in the mirror and see how much you’ve been losing your beauty. Although you’re beautiful and sexy but if you’re not good of taking care of yourself, your shine will get fade after sometimes. You not need to spend all your money expensive therapy or make hair do at expensive salon, it just enough if your hair smell fresh and groomed nails because it usually a sign that you can take care of yourself all over.

No matter how simple guys can think about his girl is, “No matter how untidy is my girl – she must better than me.” So, what are you going to do with yourself if your man has a high test? Are you going to spend thousands every month to keep him beside you? Remember, too much fussing can actually be a turn-off. If you felt comfortable and sexy in your own skin when you first met him, so don’t shed it. Just keep ex-foliating. Stay beautiful – clean – gorgeous will keep your man heart beat.

Flirt won’t hurt, it’s sweet

Flirting while you’re in relationship will give variation to your love – it’s fun, sweet, harmless and can serve as a reminder that you’re still got it. However, flirting doesn’t mean you have to show to your partner how good you can play the game. Before you go and having fun, always remember that the art of flirtation is in its subtleties. There’s nothing more attractive than someone who’s comfortable interacting with people of both sexes.

You can go to any parties together, but whether you want to stick to him all the time or split up for a while and mingle with others is depends on you. Give each other some space having good times with people will give both of you more ideas to talk while spend time together next time. When both of you have many stories to talk and laugh for, it gives richness to your relationship at the same time. People also felt comfortable if you both not just joined in the hip all the time and easily mix with others. The most important thing is you both trusting and confidence enough to enjoy yourself with sincere heart. You must be proud of him when other come up to you and rave about what a lovely, fun guy your boyfriend is. So, next time when you go for party, slip on those stilettos, grab the champers and work that room. Not only you will have that ball, he’ll realize all over again why he feel in love with savvy, sparky you.

Back & Stay beside him

We all know love is all about give and take. It’s all about having fun all altogether. Flirting is all very well, as long as he gets a piece of actions too! Sometimes, you cook for him and iron his shirt doesn’t mean you have to stop enjoying live. Love is all about playfulness. Add more sweetness in your relationship will bring more happiness to you. Plan a romantic vacation for your anniversary or surprise each other with spontaneous dates where destination isn’t revealed. Cook a special dinner for him at least two to three times a month. Returning to the early energy of romancing each other is an important way to keep the zest, lust and love alive.

Take an initiative and show up at his football game, e-mail him a sexy and romantic poem to tell and show how much you love and care about him. Try to looking for a free time to stay in the romantic night with him by planning some romantic hang out together. A good relationship is all about enjoying yourself as individual and enjoying each other as a couple. Just remember, retain your single-minded sass and you’ll remain like-minded in love.