Every couple wish for happy and long lasting relationship. But how many of them succeed and what is their secret for being together no matter how long they’ve been together or how many times they have to face arguments. Some says it depend on fate? But do you think it’s fate when your relationship never work no matter what you do – or you just don’t understand what a happy couples needs to live happy together? Ask yourself? All the time you’ve been with your partner, how many times both of you do something together or holding hands while working together? If you want to say you always strolling arm-in-arm on the street in your early relationships, just forget about it. How about now? How about three or five month later, did both of you still watching movies, eat, play or travel together?

Happy relationship needs happy couple and to be happy together forever, you needs love, times together, trust each other, understanding and many more of the positives things. It’s not only you alone have to struggle to make it but both of you have to work together – play each other part without avoiding any responsibilities. Happy couples always make things together happily without hesitate. Nothing could stop their love burning and growing stronger day after day. How they make it? Do you love your relationship and want to stay happily forever? Catch these secrets to make both of you to be the most happiest couple on this planet.

SECRET #1 Magnetic attraction towards him at your first meet

It’s sound like you fall in love at the first sight. Strong feelings that you feel towards unknown person at your first meet means that both of you attract to one another and that connection is the first sign both of you are belongs to each other. Your intuition told you that you can live and spend the rest of your life besides him forever. Hard to believes? If you’re happy with your relationships, you know it’s true. Or you can ask any happy couples - what makes them happy and stay hold on to their love. Those feelings are combination between emotional and sexual attractions and it can be last by nurture it together.

SECRET #2 Different personalities make both of you closer

Peoples always say that couples who had more similarity can be good partner and have lasting relationship. But actually, not all of them because dissimilarity makes person more attracted to their partner. You like cat but he didn’t - so if he really love you, appreciate your relationship, and want to see your happy face, no matter what, he will learn to love cats too. That’s the power of love! So, here both of you can share the values from others interest. At the same time, both of you spend more time together and learn about each other and these differences and the opposite personalities boost your desires to understand your partner.

SECRET #3 Respecting each other

This is a need for every relationship and without or lack of it may cause to unhappy couples. Respect each other opinion, discuss if want to make any decisions and never disregard others feelings while arguing. Do not look down his ideas, his beliefs or even judges him – talk nicely, never scream and solve problems in peace. Respect for one another is one of main key to harmonies and long lasting relationship.

SECRET #4 Your lover, your best friend

Normally, every close relationship starts with friendship and when feelings become more complicated, it turns into love. You feel comfortable every time you meet or staying besides him – you do whatever you want to do without pretend to be others. Both of you like to share same interest, always spends time together and doing things together. Your relationship warm and friendly, just likes when you being with your friend – accepting each other abilities, and like his best more than others. You come to each other when faces troubles and what makes your relationship special is your partner is always be your top priority.

SECRET #5 No heart feeling

No couples never argue, even the happiest ones. And sometimes they quarrel and fight worst than others – blow up everything at the same time. But half and hour later they back together again. So, what is the secret? Never keep a grudge – its mean whatever you or your partner quarrel about during the arguments, forgets about it and never bring on those bad topics again. For happy couples, there’s no heart feeling! They take time to calm down for a moment and came back later to talk over with their partner in a calm and rational manner. Give some space to each other to rethink about their mistakes and contented couples always make an apology to win back their partner heart. And the most important a thing is there’s must have one person to retreat, and in this kind of situations, couples have to put aside their ego.

SECRET #6 Make changes for good

Most couples change after build a close relationship and only a few will feel they’re exactly the same people they were when they first get together. Some changes because they have too and of course, content couples make changes to improve their relationship. Maybe before this you have bad habits and your partner don’t like what you do and you realizes that it cause conflict to your relationship. So, you stop doing it in order to keep your love survives and flourishes. These happy couples can go through all the obstacles and tears by thinking about their partner needs – looking for any chance to make a great change and their relationship always in top priority.

SECRET #7 Be positive

Couples with positive attitude will help them to cope more easily with their daily affair of life. When they adopt it into their relationship, it will bring to constructive changes and make them happier, brighter and successful in their relationship. If you and your partner keep focus on the positive aspects, it will give both of you an ability to surmount any difficulty along the way – gives inner power and strength to keep the relationship alive and steady. So, try to avoid any negative thinking, have faith in yourself and in the power of the universe – there’s nothing you cannot be, nothing you cannot do and there’s nothing you cannot have!

SECRET #8 Love and romance

Both love and romance playing the same part to balance a love life – even friendship is one of the key to make the relationship goes smoothly, but romance gives a big influence to keep love burning all the time and increase intimacy. Happy couples always paying attention to romantic rituals to rekindle passion – doing all the little things that show support and caring, hug or kiss and saying love words will strength their relationship, keep it warm, content and fulfill both needs. Most couples have no problem making these thoughtful gestures when they’re courting, but they stop doing them once the relationship is established. Often the feelings of romance and attraction that first drew together a man and woman get lost over time. This is because the couples fail to recognize, appreciate and understand the natural differences between the sexes.

SECRET #9 Being faithful

Loyalty and faithfulness is a basic requirement for any couple who is serious in wanting their relationship to survive the test of time. Happy couples live longer, more productive, healthier and happier lives because they stay faithful to each other, and monogamous. Happiness comes from the qualities a couple builds for themselves upon the foundation of fidelity. Be close to each other – build and maintain emotional and sexual intimacy in the relationship. The close you are, the stronger you are. How can you hope o nurture a healthy relationship without loyalty?

SECRET #10 Balance both power

These days, man and woman both working and it’s not only man who handling financial matters. This always bring to conflicts and arguments but if both of you really love each other, power will never be a problem – no arguments or battle each other for dominance to see who’s more qualified comes out on top, who’s more power or whatsoever. The equal standing of happy couples is they always stay to the principles ‘give and take’, and always together handling financial matters. If you wanted to plan for stable and long lasting relationship, make sure both of you discuss and sort out who pays for what earlier to balance the power.