Wondering why your man acts strange lately? Does he’s trying to give you some hints about something? For sure, his bad behaviors hurting you – he didn’t talk to you, avoiding you, treat you badly and you feel that his love is not the same. Is there’s big problems bother his mind or does it means he want to over the relationship but don’t have the guts to say “it’s over”? Come on girl, what you think about his strange behavior might be right. Some guys are not brave enough to end up the relationship for some personal reasons – he might be afraid to hurt you, worry you can’t accept the fact or he himself are not sure with his own decision. What makes it so hard guys? Why they have to push you to the max in the hope you’ll do their dirty work.

You just don’t understand how it happened. You both having happy time all this while – less arguing, care about others, have a good talk, enjoying most all the time together and felt like you were two sides of the same coin. But recently – you can’t pinpoint exactly when – he changed. Instead of spending your time thinking does he loves you or not, it’s better if you get ready to face the fact he’s now in process to break up with you. But neither do you want to waste any more time on this relationship if he’s busy fantasizing about how he could get rid of you.

If you’re afraid to confront him to ask for the answers, “Is it over?” just in case he gets the wrong idea and thinks you want to break it off, take your time and check out these tips to help you find out where you stand – here are the most common strategies men use to sneakily force their girlfriend to call it quits:

Freak #1 He’s become silent person and trying to avoid you

There’s a different between silence when you’re in happy relationship compare to the situations when you and him don’t have anything to talk about, feel uneasy, awkward, full of tense and can’t get connected to each other. Get silence to reach a comfort zone for each other is something that very beautiful and meaningful where you both can feel that connection and love intimately. But, when romance is on its last legs, it’s like two people who never knew each other – he’s busy thinking of leaving you and you’re busy trying to finish the unsolved puzzle of winning back his heart. If he keeps in mute tune every time you meet, for sure, that’s the easiest way how he can shows you he’s not interested in you anymore. Remember, he’s just trying to catch your anger, so you’ll lose your consideration and can’t stand up to his silence and give up. But, is that easy to end up the relationship and forget about feelings and beautiful moment you’ve been through together? What say you?

Freak #2 He’s not punctual and always break the promise

The reasons why you adore him so much is because he’s always on time and never break the promise he’s made without any strong reasons. He’s never been late even for a minute and always there waiting for you patiently without muttering. But lately, he’s not holding to his words anymore. Being late for no reasons and didn’t gives any call to inform you he’s going to be late. And when you meet, he’s snarl at you when you complain your feet about to break waiting for too long. What does it mean? Whose does wrong and who supposed to get mad? You get angry because you cared and concerned about his behaviour really means. How about him?

He’s the one who’s coming late and then come out with anger and blame you for his own fault. Where’s all the respect gone? Is that a sign his loyalties might be shifted? You knew and can felt it, but you’re afraid of losing him and hoping that one day you can change him and makes he love you more. Is it worthy? He treats you like unimportant person in his life, you’re not his priority and he didn’t care about your feelings. After all – the point of being in relationship is that you feel valued and cared for. If he treat you like these, it’s mean he just pushing you into dead end and trying to sabotage your loyalty because he don’t have the guts to end it. Why put up with it? If he’s late again, please…make sure you’re not there any more. Why waiting for someone selfish and can’t made a promise?

Freak #3 You always do wrong

Whatever you do, nothing is right in his eyes. All goes wrong no matter what you do –small matters become a very big deal. Sometimes you just felt that he’s intentionally trying to find your fault – little things that never would have caused a ripple in your lives, such as you overcook his breakfast, accidentally colouring his favorite jeans or forget to buy his drink, suddenly turn into global incidents. Does people in love treat their lover like a prisoner, only looking for their fault, blame them and always get mad for small mistakes they done? Think logically – when you love someone, that small matter doesn’t bother you at all because you’re focused on what’s so great about each other and forgive the one your love for small mistakes showing how much you love and appreciate them.

If he’s always finding fault with everything you do and obviously show his dissonance, that’s mean he didn’t see what special about you anymore and he act nasty and childlike is to show you he’s not having fun any more and want to over it. It just the way to take the bull by the horns and get you into uncomfortable situations so that you get fed up and leaving him. So, it doesn’t like he’s done wrong right? Playing dirty again!

Freak #4 He’s not express his love any more

Does he say those three little words to you lately? You feel it’s been for a very long time you didn’t hear the words and you can’t see other ways he show you that he still loves you. Of course you feel surprised to the sudden change because all this while he often say it to you and even he didn’t you still can felt that loves when he always gives you affectionate hugs, buy you bucket of flowers and kiss you passionately. But now, the situation is different – no more hug or kiss, not being intimate, no more romantic words and he’s look uncomfortable when you’re in a conversation. Some men are really hard to say “I love you” some times and we understand that, but if he didn’t show his love in other ways you can feel, it’s mean he doesn’t feel to make it with you any more. So, what are you waiting for? He already show you how he felt, it’s time for you to make a decisions.

Freak #5 You’re not in V.I.P list on his phone

You’re same like his other friends – and no other things can show that you’re special than others. By the way, you’re the most regular person on his message bank. Why? Because he never reply your messages and rarely call you back. And when you ask why he didn’t reply you, his answers always the same: “I’m busy”, “Oh…I forgot”, “Ermm…battery low”, “Well, I didn’t receive any of your messages or calls”. Why doesn’t he tell you, “I don’t have time for you or I don’t feel like to answers your call.” That’s easier, right? Before this, he always gives you a call and sometimes more than enough, but now he took days to call you back and it maybe he’s insisted – and it’s only a short call to ask why you call. Sounds pity?

Rather than wasting your money and time, better if you playing the same game with him. Stop phoning altogether and see what happens. If he complains why you neglected him tell that you just do as he wish. Ask him back why he treats you so rudely? If he can’t give the answers and never called you back, you know what it means. Go on with your life and don’t waste time on him any more.

Freak #6 He’s never in the mood

When you’re not in love anymore, of course it’s hard to focus on your partner especially when it comes into intimate part. If at the beginning of the relationship he couldn’t keep his hands off you, why now he rarely touch you or holding your hand? You think it’s your fault so you put more effort to improve it, but it won’t work because there’s something else between the lines, something you couldn’t face alone without him. You know when your sex life is not hot as before, there must be something outside the relationship effected it and this often points to deep relationship difficulties. To get the solutions, try to talk to him and ask how he feels about your waning sex life. If he interested to bring it into discussions, you’ve get the changes to resolve the problems and that’s a good sign. But if he just ignored what you said – maybe he’s no longer investing in your relationship. Come back to your single life and nurture yourself. Bring back your sensuality and boost your confident for better future.

Freak #7 He treats your friends and family badly

He gives different sort of reasons every time you asking him to meet your friends or going back home to have dinner with your parents. Last time he’s just so excited each time you both spent time with all of them even though it’s difficult for him to make himself comfortable among your friends. Well, at least he’s tried it once to mix with them because he cared about you and wanted you to be happy. But now, he shows you clearly that he couldn’t mix with them so he ignores your girlfriends, absents himself when they drop over to visit and makes fun of things they say. And when you both met your parents, he couldn’t stayed a bit longer although your mum asking too. Does it rude? Of course, your friends and family catch the differences and complaint to you - and actually that’s what he wants. He just trying to push your button so that you will start the fight with him and then he can say, “Well, if you feel that way about me why don’t you just break it off.” Tricky but it works, don’t you?

Freak #8 He took every opportunity to hurt your feelings

What is more hurt than when your love one doesn’t care about you and neglected your absence even though you’re together? You just like a little doll to treat whatever he wants too without counting your feelings. Enough if he tried to avoid you at home but not at the party where everyone can see it. He treats you as unimportant person, leaving you with your friends and he’s busy chit chat with others until the end of the party. And when your friends concern about you and asking if there’s something went wrong between you both, and the only think you can do is lie. You felt so embarrassing and told them that’s only a gimmick. Hahahaha…you just make fool of yourself.

Come on girl, he’s just trying to show you he had more fun with others than spends time with you.

When a boyfriend gives you the cold shoulder in public it’s the ultimate snub – he wants to make you feel unimportant and break your heart. Be honest with yourself and don’t make he hurt you more and more. If he tried to push you away despicably, why don’t you confront him to clear up things? Give back his freedom and you’re free to find others.

Freak #9 He’s behave like a Casanova

He flirts around with every girl he knows via e-mail and you couldn’t understand what’s going on his mind. You’re trying to be mature about the whole thing, but you don’t have that courage. So, you just keep your mouth shut and keep thinking why he continuously playing around with your heart. Does he want to test your loyalty or he trying to give you some hint? We all know that men who playing Casanova with other women because they’re not sure whether they’re ready for commitment and to test how strong their feelings. Well, it makes sense, but it doesn’t excuse his behaviour and there’s no rule that says you have to wait around for him to make his mind. So, don’t be rude to yourself. Take every opportunity and do the same thing as he did. If he still in the relationship, he will ask why. And you know what to answer – ask him the same question. If he just look at you with no heart feelings, that’s mean he don’t care about you anymore. So don’t wait longer, you free to go and have a good flirt with guy of your dream.

Freak #10 Every one close to him acting strange

Don’t feel odd if his friends suddenly treat you a little bit different than before – they’re less friendly, lots of uncomfortable silences and seem try to avoid you. It might be a sign they know something you don’t. You know, if you had problems, the first person you going to tell are your friends especially when it is something that connected with your love life. So, no wonder if he had been discuss his problems with his friends too, of course – in full, intimate detail. Watch out! Although guys are not always very open in their discussions with their male mates, they will often let their friends in on the secret when they’ve fallen out of lust or love. Remember, any guy who tells his friends he’s over you and then forces you to break up with him is immature person and can’t make any decisions for his own life. He can’t give you the happiness and love – so get rid of him…fast!