Comments on: Men infidelity – Why do women stick to men who stray? http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/ A lifelog on relationship, pets, food and beverages, interesting stuff Tue, 19 Apr 2011 07:31:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: MiSs LiLy http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/comment-page-1/#comment-51742 MiSs LiLy Fri, 16 Nov 2007 17:10:23 +0000 http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/#comment-51742 Hi Jennifer, I don't have any idea how you can face that situation for many years even you already have that feelings that he cheated on you. Maybe there's something special about him which make you can't let yourself out or you put some hope that one day he will change when he know how much you care and try to understand him. Your attention might be good if only for short term and some more you're not married yet. But if you want top stay for long time in this kind of situation, it might give bad effect to you one day. But, I'm sure you have your own reason for forgiving and excusing him many time and whatever is the reason, please think about yourself and don't let it continuous because it will harm yourself.Always remember that love can kill. So, don't make it become hard situation until there's no way to turn back. Thanks for sharing & good luck to you Jennifer. Hi Jennifer, I don’t have any idea how you can face that situation for many years even you already have that feelings that he cheated on you. Maybe there’s something special about him which make you can’t let yourself out or you put some hope that one day he will change when he know how much you care and try to understand him. Your attention might be good if only for short term and some more you’re not married yet. But if you want top stay for long time in this kind of situation, it might give bad effect to you one day. But, I’m sure you have your own reason for forgiving and excusing him many time and whatever is the reason, please think about yourself and don’t let it continuous because it will harm yourself.Always remember that love can kill. So, don’t make it become hard situation until there’s no way to turn back.
Thanks for sharing & good luck to you Jennifer.

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/comment-page-1/#comment-51523 Jennifer Wed, 14 Nov 2007 18:16:40 +0000 http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/#comment-51523 OMG!! My fiancée was cheating on me. I just caught him and he cant even deny it. Everytime I asked him about where he was at, I could tell he was lyin to me….you get to know yer man ya know what I mean. He was always telling me that he was out with his friends or caught up in traffic or something like that. It was always weird how he would never let me hang out with his friends. Never. So I went on you tube to find some videos on how to catch a cheater and the first thing that came up was this disgusting sex thing. But I went to the website and they had a lot of stuff to help you catch a cheater. I got 2 things. One is called a cell phone spy, that I used on his phone to find the deleted text messages when he was in the shower. Daaaam was I pissed. He was sending all kinds of text messages to some chick. I also got this thing called a keylogger and put in on his computer and I caught him chattin online with the same chick while I was there right in front of me. When I confronted him, he couldn’t deny nothing. He was stutterin because I was telling him everything that he and she were saying to each other. I was with him for 3 years. I cant believe this happened to me. Im glad I went with my gut. We didn’t plan the wedding too much, but we were supposed to get married in less than a year. Even his family is on my side. Well…if any of you want to check em out, you can find Brickhouse Security at <a href="www.brickhousesecurity.com/catch-a-cheater.html" rel="nofollow">www.brickhousesecurity.com/catch-a-cheater.html</a> . Good luck girls. Get him good. OMG!! My fiancée was cheating on me. I just caught him and he cant even deny it. Everytime I asked him about where he was at, I could tell he was lyin to me….you get to know yer man ya know what I mean. He was always telling me that he was out with his friends or caught up in traffic or something like that. It was always weird how he would never let me hang out with his friends. Never. So I went on you tube to find some videos on how to catch a cheater and the first thing that came up was this disgusting sex thing. But I went to the website and they had a lot of stuff to help you catch a cheater. I got 2 things. One is called a cell phone spy, that I used on his phone to find the deleted text messages when he was in the shower. Daaaam was I pissed. He was sending all kinds of text messages to some chick. I also got this thing called a keylogger and put in on his computer and I caught him chattin online with the same chick while I was there right in front of me. When I confronted him, he couldn’t deny nothing. He was stutterin because I was telling him everything that he and she were saying to each other. I was with him for 3 years. I cant believe this happened to me. Im glad I went with my gut. We didn’t plan the wedding too much, but we were supposed to get married in less than a year. Even his family is on my side. Well…if any of you want to check em out, you can find Brickhouse Security at http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/catch-a-cheater.html . Good luck girls. Get him good.

]]> By: MiSs LiLy http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/comment-page-1/#comment-3945 MiSs LiLy Tue, 20 Mar 2007 15:56:22 +0000 http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/#comment-3945 Hi Mim, thanks for sharing. Love is always the reason why we always standing by our man no matter how many times he did wrong and hurted our feelings. Other than you, few are eager to sacrifice their own happiness just to posses their man. I'm glad finally you realized that he don't deserved your love and kicking him away from you is a good solutions rather than become his infidelity victim and destroying your life. I think it is enough after you given him so many chances to change and when he just disregard or make don't know, it's mean he didn't appreciate you at all after all you've been done for him. Don't regret leaving a man who betrayed you because you just save yourself from a terrible life. I know it's not easy at first, but your wounded will healing through time. You'd prove that! Never afraid to claim your right and freedom just like you had done. You knew that something better waiting for you out there. And now you have them. It's good you realized that keeping him beside you worth for nothing. Sometimes, we have to control ourself and keep aside love if it can harm us yet gives priority to ourself to enjoy this life. Thanks again and good luck to you and your new life! Hi Mim, thanks for sharing. Love is always the reason why we always standing by our man no matter how many times he did wrong and hurted our feelings. Other than you, few are eager to sacrifice their own happiness just to posses their man. I’m glad finally you realized that he don’t deserved your love and kicking him away from you is a good solutions rather than become his infidelity victim and destroying your life. I think it is enough after you given him so many chances to change and when he just disregard or make don’t know, it’s mean he didn’t appreciate you at all after all you’ve been done for him. Don’t regret leaving a man who betrayed you because you just save yourself from a terrible life.
I know it’s not easy at first, but your wounded will healing through time. You’d prove that! Never afraid to claim your right and freedom just like you had done. You knew that something better waiting for you out there. And now you have them. It’s good you realized that keeping him beside you worth for nothing. Sometimes, we have to control ourself and keep aside love if it can harm us yet gives priority to ourself to enjoy this life.
Thanks again and good luck to you and your new life!

]]> By: Mim http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/comment-page-1/#comment-3944 Mim Tue, 20 Mar 2007 11:47:14 +0000 http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/#comment-3944 Basically, we do it because we love them. I was with a guy about 6 years. he cheated on me up to three times anad I always kept finding excuses to not leave him, even when I felt deeply miserable. I ended up leaving him, I could not bare anymore the ups and downs of our relationship, I allready had a huge depression caused by him and also by my horrible job. Not one week after I had broken up I discovered he was having sex with one fo his friends, one that I had allready told him was after him and I did not like, she was a whore and jumped at the opportunity. He had told me how ugly and fat she was, and that he would never have anythign to do with her. Ahh well. Two years after, I still miss him terribly and I was psicological treatment for a long time (lately I only go every month or so) but I have my life back, my friends and family that support me and a new boyfriend with whom I live. Life is not perfect, but at least it got better. Basically, we do it because we love them. I was with a guy about 6 years. he cheated on me up to three times anad I always kept finding excuses to not leave him, even when I felt deeply miserable. I ended up leaving him, I could not bare anymore the ups and downs of our relationship, I allready had a huge depression caused by him and also by my horrible job. Not one week after I had broken up I discovered he was having sex with one fo his friends, one that I had allready told him was after him and I did not like, she was a whore and jumped at the opportunity. He had told me how ugly and fat she was, and that he would never have anythign to do with her. Ahh well.

Two years after, I still miss him terribly and I was psicological treatment for a long time (lately I only go every month or so) but I have my life back, my friends and family that support me and a new boyfriend with whom I live. Life is not perfect, but at least it got better.

]]> By: MiSs LiLy http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/comment-page-1/#comment-3843 MiSs LiLy Mon, 19 Mar 2007 02:02:11 +0000 http://www.luckylily.com/love-and-intimacy/men-infidelity-why-do-women-stick-to-men-who-stray/#comment-3843 Hi Bill. Nice to see you again and glad you're in good condition now. So, welcome back! :) When you point out to respectfulness and faithfulness, me, myself do wonder why they are some peoples out there can live in this unfair world, hurting themselves and betray their own freedom. However, I believe they do have a strong reason to do so and as I had mentioned above, love is over anything and some people just neglected their right to cover their partner mistakes because of love. As I had mentioned above, love is over anything else and no matter how much we were teaches to protect ourselves from a cheated men or women, we always keep making mistakes here especially when it is something that related to love and people we love. In short words, people do realized and understood all this ridiculous things but they just can't find the way out when they, themselves had been trapped in their own chrysalis. To me, being faithful and respect your partner is very important and when all this things gone, nothing else we can keep to maintain dignity of the relationship because without these two important things, it's impossible for the relationship to survive and if do, I believe you know what's going to happen in future. Thanks again Bill, hope you fully recover soon. See you! Hi Bill. Nice to see you again and glad you’re in good condition now. So, welcome back! :) When you point out to respectfulness and faithfulness, me, myself do wonder why they are some peoples out there can live in this unfair world, hurting themselves and betray their own freedom. However, I believe they do have a strong reason to do so and as I had mentioned above, love is over anything and some people just neglected their right to cover their partner mistakes because of love. As I had mentioned above, love is over anything else and no matter how much we were teaches to protect ourselves from a cheated men or women, we always keep making mistakes here especially when it is something that related to love and people we love. In short words, people do realized and understood all this ridiculous things but they just can’t find the way out when they, themselves had been trapped in their own chrysalis. To me, being faithful and respect your partner is very important and when all this things gone, nothing else we can keep to maintain dignity of the relationship because without these two important things, it’s impossible for the relationship to survive and if do, I believe you know what’s going to happen in future.
Thanks again Bill, hope you fully recover soon. See you!

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