Fall in love is one of the greatest feelings we ever have in this earth. We all know that being love-rich is all about investment. Whether you spend too much energy or too much effort – whether you’re single or attached, balancing the amount of love in your life can be the most challenging event to go through. As a single woman – of course you’re trying to find somebody to fulfill your love life and for women who already have their love ones, for sure they do the best to maintain warm and lasting relationship.

Balance your love life is the ways how you control and manage your relationship, but whether you put too much, moderate or too less effort it’s all depends on your considerations. It’s not easy when you have to manage your love life and at the same time you have to think about yourself and your future. You’re afraid to fail, or fail again and worry that everything you do is worthless, wasting your time and energy. Maybe you feel worry or unsafe, but you need a right amount of effort and appropriate ways to invest into your love life. You don’t have to sacrifice everything to get relationship you desire for – just understand how much you have locked away to spend on love…or save for a brand-new guy. Here’s some idea how to change your love destiny, with hardly any effort.

If you’re SINGLE… doesn’t mean you never hook up or hurt by any guy in your life. Being single is hard as being double and whether you’re not ready, ready or over ready, only you know why. You’re cashed-up if…you have lots of goals in life and one of them is to find a great guy to love and to loves you. It means you love and respect yourself. You think deserved to be loved by someone and it shows – that’s why men can’t help being attracted to you. When you understand yourself and your needs, means you’re ready to be more open to certain types of men you might have overlooked in the past, which instantly widens your circle of opportunity. You knew you have potential for being in love and nothing could close you off to new possibilities. How to boost your balance? Please do not getting too comfortable. Maybe you think that you have everything – friends, job and enough money to survive. You control who should or shouldn’t come to your life and wait until you’re ready to meet someone – and when you’re ready, you realize that you already coming across lots of nice men which you noticed from the start.

You’re broke if…you always trying to avoid coupled friends just because you’re single. You believe there’s someone out there already made for you. It means you maybe not ready, too picky or do not put enough effort to nurturing your relationships. Do you really believe there’s only one soul mate for you? Well, if yes you’re missing out the possibility of a long term relationship and also in friendships. Open your heart and try to think what types of relationship you desire most in your life. You don’t have to feel jealous to your coupled friends because you also can have partner if you really work for it. Talk to some one you can trust, share what you feel and try not to refuse any advices - don’t let yourself lost in your own fantasy. Boost your balance by stay positives and never ever think it’s all one-sided. Don’t let others influences your love life – you have freedom, so staying upbeat and slowly try gives change for your new love life.

You’re overdrawn, if…your heart can’t feel love anymore – you equate relationships with pain. You don’t have any desires to find new love and make it worst is you wouldn’t even know where to go to meet guys. You confuse with your own feelings don’t know whether you’re truly been in love. It means you’ve been hurt before and leave your heart with a deep scar. Whether you’re rejected by guy you lusted after for years, you’ve been dump by your first love or worse, left at the altar – for sure you can’t forget all the pain you’ve been through before especially when you give up with love and of course, it’s hard to trust guys anymore. Not every relationship will end up with happy ending but sometimes involve pain. It’s needs courage to go on with our life and we have to face up the reality. You can’t hide or run from the past because that way will ruin your life and you’ll never learn how to take risk because that’s the way life is. So learn to deal with the cycle ups or downs and see how it teaches you the real meaning of life. So, boost your balance by taking a chance on love again. Don’t afraid to fail again but try to face it – don’t let bad experience conquer your heart but you must let those nightmares out by make yourself busy and try to spend more time with healthy activities. Who knows, you might find someone with same interest with you.

If you’re COUPLED… you need more effort to maintain your relationships and it’s not only you worked for it but both of you. You’re catch-up when you’re both truly committed to making the relationship work. You truly love your partner for who he are and so do him. Both of you feel comfortable with each other and accept others weaknesses. It means you already find your soul-mate and enough to retire on. Both of you understand each other needs and ready to give commitment for the lasting relationships. There’s more than understanding but it’s your desires of love which make your relationship works. However, you need to boost your balance because sometimes, accepting there will be bad times. There will be times when both of you will be tested and suddenly stuck on something and very hard to discuss about it – by that, both of you truly feel what love really takes. But, it doesn’t mean end of your relationship – it’s just how life made it.

You’re broke, if… your feeling is not same like you feel in your early relationship – it’s kind of your love getting faded even tough you still care about him. You trying to avoid him, desperate for his absence and you can’t remember the last time you did anything special together. It means both of you needs space to enjoy individual lives. You need to recall back your love feeling – spice things up, spends some times for a holiday – separately. These will gives you time to nurture your feeling and healthy relationship always gives each other space to understand self-needed. You can boost your balance by taking responsibility – and try to find what may cause the problems. Spend more time with your partner and invite him to make a commitment. Think what you can contribute to save your relationship and don’t neglect any possibility that may end your relationship.

You’re over-drawn, if… both of you had more times arguing than loving each other. When you meet each other, you have nothing nice to say. You can’t see there’s any way out for both of you. It means your relationship passing a very hard time and heading to failure. None of relationship runs smoothly without through any difficulty – only time can decide what going to happen at the end – whether it ends with happiness or stuck on the half way: Or others need some solutions to fix relationship disability. However, it’s normal if sometimes relationship stuck somewhere, but don’t make it as an excuse to make conclusions without trying to find solutions. You’ll only sabotage it. The most important thing is you have to respect each other to boost your balance. Lasting relationship needs more than love to keep it burning all the time – overcome each problem together and don’t blamed your partner or even yourself because it will make things worst. Be gentle to each other – settle one problem with five solutions, so you can attack any disaster might come ruin your relationship. A simple things like good night wishes, a hug or saying magic words, “I LOVE YOU” sometimes, will tighten bonds which already have between both of you.