25 Clues to Know You’re Really In Love?
Copyright 2006 ~ Liliana Weston
Still confusing with your feeling? Can’t sleep at night, thinking about him but you still can’t find why. Are you really in love or just a little crush? Falling in love is one of life’s greatest events. But ironically, you often don’t know that it’s happen until it’s too late. You’re afraid to know that what you feel inside is love – afraid to disgorge it to him – and afraid you’re going to be rejected by him. But why you have to deny your own feelings and let yourself feel the painful tightness around your chest. You felt sick when he flirts with another woman, and you wonder why your heart beat very, very fast: Your heart was broken: Only then you realize that somewhere, at sometime, you fell in love with him without knowing it. Did you ever felt this feeling before?
But why wait for a broken heart? Act before it’s too late. Being in love is something too beautiful to be ignorant about. Don’t let your love elapse by times, grab it when there’s still an opportunity, maybe he’s the one to live with you forever. Here are some clues to see if you’ve been struck by Cupid’s arrow!
“It’s so easy, To think about Love, To Talk about Love, To wish for Love, But it’s not always easy, To recognize Love, Even when we hold it…. In our hands.”
–Jaka–
LOVE #1 You become alert to his favorites
His favorite’s singer to his favorite’s football player all keeps in your mind. When he says he really crazy about that singer, without thinking about other things you buy all the CD’s collection for him. You’re trying to listen to his songs even though you never like it. Even you never watch football match, you watch his favorites football team with hope one day you can share the same interest with him. At least you know a bit about the game rather than don’t know anything, right?
LOVE #2 You look for his horoscope
Of course, you’re looking for the love part. Does his star match to yours or not, or does Venus coming into orbit around his star sign anytime soon? You want to know if love is on the cards for him, is your star implicated in some way? Although you know nothing much you can hope from the zodiac sign, at least some of the match between the two of you will make you feeling more comfortable. There’s still a chance, right?
LOVE #3 All his jokes become funny to you
You laugh if he laughs: No matter whether his story funny or not, you still laugh as long as you can see smiles on his face. He really can do no wrong. Even his most moronic, tasteless one-liners about faeces and flatulence seem to be the wittiest gags you’ve ever heard. What do you think girls? Sssshhhh….just keep these between the two of you okay, maybe no one else is likely to appreciate them. Haaahhaa..
LOVE #4 You take a very long time to write him an SMS/email
You over worried if your words may hurt his feelings and you want to make sure you get that casual, off-hand tone just right. No mistakes and you want the best words reaching him – whether you should put smiley or not – so much things to consider, no wonder you’re having trouble sleeping.
LOVE #5 You felt weird if you didn’t see or talk to him for a long time
Whether you realize it or not, you getting nerves to have conversation with him after a long weekends. You getting blur sometimes looking for words to say. All in your mind is hope to spend more time with him and looking for other chances to plans something for both of you. So, now times is very important to you.
LOVE #6 You become jealous for no reason
You hate every girl who talks to him. Even when the cashier at the bookstore gave him a cheeky smile, you call her sluts. What’s wrong girl? Ermmm…more than that, you can’t stand up to when other girls ask him to watch a movie. Grrrrrgh…well, why are your get jealous?
LOVE #7 You losing your appetite when he didn’t reply your SMS/call
The whole day and night you think why he didn’t replied you. So many though on your mind, and all of them mostly about bad things: What did I do wrong? Or, Did he angry with me? You can’t think logically because you’re too worried and feeling edgy so everything getting musky. It is not because you don’t have an appetite but because your mind can’t think about other thing except wondering why he didn’t call you back.
LOVE #8 You goggle him
You try every way to find any information about him to know more about him. Surf an internet looking for his name - and lucky you if you can find something about him. Hopefully his name as famous as Donald Trump so easier for you to find anything remotely related to your man online 
. Failing which, you log on to the website of the company he works for – it’s better than nothing, right?
LOVE #9 No one else can rock your boat anymore
Either Leonardo Dicaprio or Orlando Bloom, both can’t attract your interest anymore. Did you grown up girl? Or your heart just stolen by someone else; one beautiful ordinary people that make your life rockin’ everyday.
LOVE #10 Girlfriends is not your priority
No more Friday night or girl’s weekend anymore. All you do is sitting down at home waiting for his call to bring you out. You just want to make sure when he’s call, you’re free and ready to have a date any time, so just for him you turn down your gal pal’s invitation for some girlie time together. Well, hopefully he calls you. And why don’t you call him? Hahaaa…
LOVE #11 Your body is a prime concern
You start take care of your weight, your body curve, and your cup size, don’t you? You heard that men are attracted to sexy women especially the one with great body and nice breast? What do you think girl? Research says that men like breast because it soft, comforting, curvy, erotic. It symbolizes everything female. So, what’s wrong with you wanting to be as female as possible?
LOVE #12 You worry about your mobile phone reception
You try to avoid go to places where your phone can’t be reach. Every way you go, you check your phone to make sure there is at least one receptionist bar. Afraid that you will miss his call, the call you’ve been waiting for all the time.
LOVE #13 You suddenly interested with football
What’s EPL? Maybe before this you never care what it is, but not now. You start to find something more about this: start turning to the back page of the newspapers and watching sports news to see what’s going on in the English Premier League and it’s not just because David Beckham.
LOVE #14 You start learn how to cook
Every woman that fall in love, always shows their interest in cooking. Who know, you might need to cook something up for a visiting guest…an important visiting guest. So, you can show him you have ability to have a family – good mother and perfect wife.
LOVE #15 You read articles like this one in my blog
If you looking for articles like this and eager to read it, means that you already suspect you might be in love. You need an expert doctor to help you diagnosis what actually happen to you. Well, now you know what’s your feeling tell you don’t wait any longer. Chase for your dream guy while it’s not too late.
LOVE #16 You start dreaming to have baby with him
Haaahhaha…no wonder lately you really like baby. Only women in love and ready to have a family and future will have a feeling to have their own baby and of course with their love one.
LOVE #17 Romantic comedies always been your first choices
You conquer all romantic comedy dramas on TV, buy new romantic DVD’s and go watching romantic movies alone because all your friends already know it must be romantic movies again and they don’t want to miss their chances to watch another type of movie again and again. Not enough with that, you looking for old DVD’s which more dramatics and romantic as long as it has a happy lovely ending and you don’t care watching it for many times.
LOVE #18 You always grab any opportunities to take a photo with him
Any moment, or at any occasions – at parties, shopping malls or a dinner, you always trying to find an excuse to get into a shot with him…alone. And if there’s no camera, well, a camera phone will do just as nicely – as long as you got his pictures standing besides you.
LOVE #19 You won’t go anyway during weekends
Everyone start to plan their weekends but you wonder what you’re going to do. Of course, you think about to spend some times with him. You even couldn’t sleep on lazy Sundays because you’re too worry he’s going to call you or not. It seems like you waiting for some Christmas gift from Santa. Don’t you?
LOVE #20 You doodle his name all over
When you hold a pen and paper, your hand unconsciously doodle his name, sometimes with little floating hearts around it. And is that your name that you’re doodling beside his? Any doctor will take this as a sure-fire symptom of love sickness.
LOVE #21 Shopping times…and end up in the men’s aisle
While you shop for your lipstick, suddenly your head turn to men’s section – and you automatically work towards to the sections and start checking out for tie, t-shirt, cap and other men accessories. Before long, you’re trying to match his outfits to yours.
LOVE #22 You become defender to him
When you have conversation with your friends and he’s not around, you bring his name to become a main topic. And when anyone of your friends put him down, you jump to his defence. Obviously, he’s important to you and only good things you want to hear about him.
LOVE #23 His become your idol
You admire him more than anyone else: his styles, how he talks to others and the way him playing guitar. You want to intimate everything about him – music, movies, clothes, food, sports…and whatever you can see from him. He likes a movie star to you and everything about him is special. If he like plays a piano, so you try to take lessons especially from him. You felt happy when you can involve in something he likes.
LOVE #24 You become a romantic person
From the words you wrote to the way you talk to him, there’s sign of flirting. And of course you try to cover so it doesn’t look too obvious but deep inside you heart you hope that he’s been able to read between the lines. Don’t worry girl, be frank and he will see how deep is your love.
LOVE #25 His little sister makes your jealous
Well, something really serious happen here. How come? If this is not enough of a clue that you’re in love, what is? Take your time, if you have more than half of the clues, follow your heart and act before he pounce by another women.
the trouble with the concept of ‘love’, is that most fail to recognize that it is a hardwired in response. When we fail to recognize that, then we are being manipulated by the designer. lol.
Commented by froggy57 on January 4, 2007 at 1:57 pmOur genes respond to another as someone who would produce good offspring. Those with whom we don’t feel a strong attraction to would not result in healthy offspring. Or at least not optimum quality offspring. In the case of one to whom we are attracted, but they are not attracted to us, it could be that their ‘optimum offspring’ button has already been pushed.
Hi froggy57. Thanks for the comment. Love is always mystery and unpredictable. The concept of love sometimes misuse by our modern community. To me, when we attract to somebody, it doesn’t mean we’re in love. Physically attractions was the major reason why people always fail in love. Its only a temporary good feelings which not last forever. True love will produce good offspring.
Commented by MiSs LiLy on January 6, 2007 at 1:17 amhi lily, i’ve read many articles on relationships but yours comes across as genuine experiences and not just columns of cold words.
i waited 10 years to know the man of my dreams because i was too shy and afraid. i thought he was too good for me and i went on to have other relationships. when we finally had the chance to know each other, it was too late. my wedding was 6 months away.
he fell in love with me just as i was deeply in love with him.
after a few years, he didn’t give up and still showed me a lot of care, concern and attention.
Till lately, he has found someone else. i thought everything had come to an end. However, he has started his gestures again recently and can’t seem to let go of our past, despite having a new partner.
all this while, i had no courage to ask him if he loved me and though it was very clear to everyone around us that we were very much in love, we allowed years to pass without telling each other.
That will be my lifetime regret. Reading your articles reinforces the fact that sometimes, our own unfounded fears would cause our own downfall and prevent us from attaining our true happiness.
Commented by torn on September 2, 2007 at 5:15 amHi Torn, thanks for sharing with us and I’m truly sorry to hear your story. What happen to you is a common problem that always occurs among our people. Never want to try until it’s too late. However, I understand how you feel. If you love somebody, you should show your feeling to him and you can’t wait until he tell you. To show your feeling, doesn’t mean you have to tell him directly how you feel - love also can be show by actions. Express your feeling indirectly will leave more effect heart.
Commented by MiSs LiLy on September 5, 2007 at 10:50 pmIf you want to know if your admire feel the same way is you, please give him some hint. Try to get close to him, and see what his response. All this things can be done spontaneously without prepare many things. You can feel it in your heart if he also care about you. If you never show him, so do him, so both of you will never know each other.
Now, both of you so deep in love but already belong to other people. Ask yourself, ask your heart, what you really want. Does he still the one you love before. Does the feeling remain the same after you get married? Does he love you as much as you love him? Or he just your dreaming guy? Don’t forget to think about your future. Does he really the one you want to spend your life with? Does it worthy to sacrifice your life and go for your love. If you feel regret you do wrongly and hard to make decision, then you can discuss with him to get the answer. Don’t be afraid. This is your chance to know whether he really love you. Ask him if he can leave his girlfriend for you? The answer is in his hand but the decisions is yours. So, don’t get afraid of feel shy, go for your true love and feel the true happiness. Tell him, and ask him. make sure this time you’ll never regret. Good luck Torn. Hopefully you’ll get your true love and find the real happiness.