If we’re given an opportunity to choose what we like to do in this life, it must be a pleasure to everyone. No problems to worry about; definite future and enjoying happy life everyday. But, how many of us had that such of opportunity and being lucky living in that perfect world? It’s maybe 1:1000 or more to live in the world that following to our needs and enthusiasm. Who’s care? Believe it or not, almost of us don’t have any chance to do what we like or desires most in our life. Our fate bring us to the other side of what and where we’re going to be; given us no space to choose whatever we dream of. Some are lucky and blissful; others have to follow their life fate – have choices but can’t choose.

Most of us have to work hard in order to fulfill our heart desires – but not all our effort produce beautiful fruits. Some people didn’t do anything but their life always goes easily and at the end fate again to be in question. What do you expect your life going to be? Do you like what you’re doing right now? Or you did it because you have to do - to survive or you don’t have other way to climb over to your destiny.

Rich people want a freedom in their life and poor people want to be rich. You know, twist of life always brings us to the way of deadlock. And whoever in the middle become victims to those that looking for their freedom and chasing for money. What to do if life goes beyond expectations? Do you believe that life is really unfair? Or it’s too fair? Ask yourself! Any answers in your mind now, keep it for yourself. It’s really useful to keep you in track – so you won’t lose the light of hopes.

If we rethink again and again, we realized that whoever we’re now it’s all came from our past; how’s our childhood life, the way our parents train us or where we did grow up. Actually parents’ gives a deep effect to the way we thinking: They choose what things to learn, clothes to wear and music to listen to. Until certain ages we know that we’re not really interested in what we’re doing now and start to find something that really attract our interest.

Sometimes, we confuse what’s exactly we’re looking for in our life. Parents who understand their children natural ability from the start are given more flexibility to them in choosing their life direction. The very, very sad things are when your parents ignored your feelings – pretend do not understand what you want and pushing you to do things base on their own needs. If you follow what they want and push yourself, it may give an effect to your life – feel unhappy, no pleasure and never feel content in whatever you do.

What do you expect to happen in your life? I tell you. Don’t expect too much what may come to your life. You may feel disappointed if you can’t reach the goal – hoping for something that unsure and there’s no guarantee you’ll satisfied with what you achieve than. Who’s to be blame? There are so many things we can do in this life, whether we like it or not – or we have to do it – life must go on. If you don’t have any chance to choose – the best career, get your dream house, or to have your own yacht, don’t felt guilty for that. Maybe you’re not born to have them.

To have a great life, it doesn’t mean all your dreams must come true. No one on earth posses whatever they wanted for even the richest people – as I said above: no freedom or maybe don’t have a true love. Nobody does know. So, what else to say? Enjoy your life while there’s still time! Keep working on whatever you’re stuck in now because you worth it - appreciate what you have because life is so short. There must be a reason why we’re chosen to have a life like we had now. I always say to myself, nothing to regret to stay in this world. It’s only a temporary place – to test how much we appreciate ourselves and life that had been given to us. People always say that, “Do a good thing, than your life become meaningful and full with contentment.” True or not, try it yourself!