Life is full with surprised. We always desire wanting for everything to be perfect as we always dream of during childhood mostly; but sometimes it happens the way we never expected at all — didn’t get your dreams career, don’t have a wonderful boyfriends or girlfriends, or didn’t get a perfect body that you always wanted for even you always work hard to reach your target. Life is just like a box of chocolates. We’re never know how it like or taste until we open the box. Most of all, story of human life goes to the other side of what we wanted it to be. That’s a fact.

Well, there’s so many things that happen to our life, and it is always an optimist people will take it as a challenge. But, how about if unfortunate things often happen and start to ruins your goal? You must be feeling very upset, sad, or sometimes get mad, don’t you? Or you just accept it as your luck? Oooo maybe today is not my luck, maybe there’s another times. I don’t think so. And the next five years later, do you think you’ll say the same words to yourself when you still live a life like before or maybe even worse? Are you always can be this positives all the time? Only you have the answers for this questions. Keep waiting and waiting until one day you realized that there’s nothing anymore, to waiting for. Your journey ended without any progress into your life.

What kind of life is that? All those unfortunate things comes with no welcoming signs ruins our life, make people out of their mind, and losing control of themselves. That’s why, so many stress, depression, or even suicide happen everyday in our tough world — child abuse, people kill themselves, and also people kill others just only to fulfill self desires. What are you going to do if those situation happen to you or people around you? Are you going to do something or just let where your destiny bring you? I think only crazy peoples allow themselves drawn by water without do something to save their precious life. What do you think? Is life really tough or it just yourself make it tough and heavy till you can’t carry your life burden?

Of course, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to improve ourselves and our life, but occasionally we need to give ourselves a break, sit back and reflect on what we already have — meaning that trying to give a limit in whatever we’re wanting for. And while we’re in at it, forget about the size of the house or the smallest of the garden, and celebrate something that’s wonderful about our life our family, our job or the fact that we have a roof over our head. Even it is not perfect as what you have dreams before, but at least we have something to be proud of or at least we have a good life. Maybe that’s the way God want it to be for you — because HE already do a perfect planning for the world and the people. Do not regret your destiny, we did a plan but it’s HIS choice to make it happen or not. But, one things for sure, whatever we wanted most in our life, do not expect to much it will come true; regain your faith because we as a human can try , but it’s all about the universe — to know that there’s somebody powerful which entitle to control the universe and all the dweller.