You love him and you think he loves you too. But all he do and the way he treat you doesn’t show he’s in love with you, cares about you and wants to be with you forever. You try to deny and avoid the reality, telling yourself it just a signs of insecure feelings. Get mad to your friends when they tried to tell you. How love can blind people. Your parents, your friends and even your work colleague can see it, but you have no doubt of his integrity. He didn’t ask you for a date during weekends or even gives you a call. And you tell yourself, he just busy and maybe don’t have free time for both of you, or maybe he will come tomorrow. But, does he? You’re alone, you have friends, but you feel hesitate to call them, wondering he might be asking you out anytime. Night comes and you didn’t even see his shadow neither a simple phone call.

“If he really care, he’d be there now,” sounds your closes friends. And suddenly you wake-up from a very long dream and realize your friend is right. He’s making do with you. Why put up with it? Because when he’s there, it’s fabulous – he’s witty, kind, generous and interesting. But, it’s when he there. And it has only been a few months. And that was the best moment when you can’t wait to see each other again and felt like this universe is yours. “You need to be number one. That’s the whole point. If you aren’t his priority now, it’s unlikely you ever will be,” says couples counselor Denise Knowles. Some men aren’t ready to take full responsibilities, but they’re not adverse to a bit of fun in the meantime. They need someone to hold their hand until they’re sure of themselves again.

This type of transitional relationships can be potent because the times you spend together are intense. The sex is divine. The meager love drops addictive. You maybe become his “princess” when he’s ready and to make sure his love is yours, you have to be patient. However, being a transitional woman, you might get hurt because you’re the transport from one part of his life to another. And when he’s ready to catch his life back and get over all his problems, he’ll say thanks a lot and take your love lessons elsewhere. Here are the signs that show you might be stuck on a love train to nowhere. And if you tick three or more, get your own train home. (Continue Reading…)

Some relationship doesn’t run smoothly as we wish it suppose to be. Of course when you choose to love someone, you hope for something more than just couple. Looking for lasting love, someone who gives hope in the future, sharing life together and always stay beside you in happy and hard time. You use to share so many interests and future dreams. Now about the only thing is the air you both breathe. Where’s all the love gone? Your heart doesn’t beat faster like before and every time you meet nothing much you can talk about. In cases like these, deciding to break up is easy.

But why? Do you really have the right reason to leave the one you’ve been choose to be your soul mate? If only it was always so easy. In reality, relationships are like most things in life, threaded through with imperfection. You still laugh at most of his bad jokes, still come over all hot and bothered when he close to you and still feel twinge of jealousy when he looks to other girls. Yet you find yourself questioning the relationship simply because it isn’t perfect, whatever that means. No matter how deep is your love, how hard you try, or how special is he to you – sound perfect, but sometimes love is unpredictable - you can’t see what is going wrong, and suddenly that loves turn into unexpected hatred.

People often make mistakes when they decide to break up with their love one without knowing what exactly the reason why. Lots of confusing somehow makes them do not realized somewhere deep inside their heart, there’s still lot of love. So, before you quit that relationship, remember, it won’t come back to you as easy as you throwing it away from your life. Before it’s too late, think wisely – “you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone” – could apply to you. (Continue Reading…)

Tired of dates that lead nowhere? Everything goes well during your meet but there’re still unanswered e-mails and your phone still silence as usual. So what went wrong? You’ve been introduced at a party by your friend, business card were exchanged and both of you look attracted to each other. So, both of you agree to start the first date with romantic candle light dinner. He makes jokes and you laugh, talking non-stop with lots of story, seductively tasted each other foods and even did the old lingering knee touches beneath the table thing. And when the night is coming, he ride you home, walked you to the doorstep and gives you a hug and romantic goodnight kiss J. Argghhhh…For sure you have a very beautiful dream that night. Sounds like you already found your perfect mate? And you can’t wait for the second date call, but you didn’t hear from him anymore until you desperately call him to get his answers. And what you get is: “Sorry….I’m quite busy at work, I call you when I’m free or Sorry…my server went down and I lost a week’s worth of email”. You know what it means – he’s not going to call you for the second date and the first want would be the last.

You may don’t have any idea what’s going on his mind – what you did wrong, you can’t see it. Everything looks perfect and why did he change his mind? Even what every man think is not the same but for a start, they really mind whether both of you really can get along together. In other words, he can’t grab you and his feeling towards you is not strong as he think - it ain’t electricity if it only runs one way. Because we can feel something deep inside if he’s/she’s the one we want to know more and to be together. However, here a few simple date strategies which may help you win men heart at the first date. Check it out! (Continue Reading…)

Whether you’re in love or had been married, you can’t expect that you’re healthy enough, wasn’t stressful and not expose to any disease. And for those who’s single out there and who had been divorces, don’t think that you’re already survives from any sudden onset of illness. You practice a healthy life – eat fruits and vegetables daily and workout regularly but if you’re not happy and your life are empty, you have more chance of getting ill and dying young more than your friends who’re smokes, pigs out on junk food and has a family history of heart disease. New research shows that love may be the most important factor in helping us live longer. Loneliness really can lead to a broken heart and it is one of the leading causes of death and a major factor in heart diseases.

To be happy, is to have someone you can confide, to love you and knows you inside-out can be even better for your health than a married with no confidant. So, one way of boosting your health is to have a great social life – have a conversation to the variety of people. Experts says, the more you talk, the lower you chances of getting the symptoms of a cold, even if you’ve been infected. The theory is that if you’re meeting lots of people you’ll be happier and also have stronger immune system. Dr Dean Ornish, professor of medicine at the University of Californis says: “Love and intimacy is the root of what makes us sick and what makes us well. What damages us and what heals us. If a drug had the same impact, virtually every doctor in the world would be recommending it for their patients.”

We can’t deny that love keeps us healthy, but what about the different types of relationships? Which you think the healthiest: Being single, married person, couples who stay together or divorced people? Is an intense fling better for your health than a stable but boring marriage? What if you’re co-habitating with no plans to marry? No matter, which types you’re in, check this out to make sure how healthy your life is. (Continue Reading…)

Where is your relationship heading? Do you think you and your partner are ready to go through tough time together, still holding hand during crucial time and have strength to face any obstacle? Some couples can’t estimate how far their relationship is but still feel confident enough to make conclusion how serious they are. However, when troubles come, they can’t even go through it and worse they blame each other for what happen to them.

To build a strong and secure relationship is not easy – how long you’ve been together won’t guarantee your relationship will be survives. If you’re not sure how strong your bond with your partner, you should give serious attention what level your love is in? Is it serious enough to enter marriage gateway or still floating in the sky looking for more strength to hold on into the relationship? Why some marriage couples fail to maintain their love and why some successful hold on till the end? You know the answers. Find out where your love is and make a move before it’s too late. Only by know where your love is, so you can estimate how strong bond between both of you and only then you can be sure both of you are ready to go further together live happily ever after. No worry, no hesitate, no regret, only blissful! (Continue Reading…)