The Real Reason HE Doesn’t Want To Have Sex

August 17, 2008 by  
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Hard to believe and imagine? But it’s really happen in few relationships where men really don’t want to have sex. I know what move in your mind now. Does he homo type or sick @#%$&? Whatever….Maybe….However there’re other reason that you might want to know. You know the drill right? With the exception of a few monk types who have meditated their libidos into submission, there’s not a man alive who wouldn’t jump at the chance to do the horizontal cha-cha. Driven by man dicks and aroused by everything from a brisk walk in corduroy to Nigella Lawson, the theory goes that man in possession of a heat-seeking moisture missile that’s continually primed and ready for action. So why would a man choose not to make jiggy when you put forward the invitation. Well, as they say in classics, it’s not you, it’s him mostly. Read more

Identify A Man With Love On The Rebound

June 16, 2008 by  
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You’ve just only met, but you’ve been talking animatedly for hours. And just when you’re wondering how to suggest you trade numbers without looking too desperate he drops the bombshell he’s recently single. Opppss!!! How recent is recent? you ask trying to appear nonchalant as the words stick in your throat? We split two weeks ago, he answers and they there are alarm bells blaring in your head warning man in limbo. There is few meaning of words recently single whether he’s available to party or keen to hook up with new women. But a freshly uncoupled heart often goes hand in hand with a bruised ego (because he was dumped) or an insatiable sexual appetite (he did the dumping because he wants to play the field) It’s possible too! Read more

Love Myths – Part 1

September 16, 2007 by  
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Still waiting for your prince charming to sweep you off your feet and bring eternal tales? The story about everlasting love which sometimes influences the way you think about love and whatever you’re looking for in relationship. Why not? Everyone has their own dream, a thought of finding your true love and ride off into the sunset to live happily ever after with the one you love. The time you dream of lying in your prince charming arm and hoping to wake up next to him. But truth is after that ride into the sunset, comes the morning after and the morning after that.

The reality never easy to accept every relationship requires ongoing maintenance to keep it working. That’s where lots of budding romances start to hit the wall not because they’re flawed but because of expectations that are completely unattainable. Sometimes what you believe in love is not exactly the right things which give us misguided message about what we should expect and demand from love. So, take a deep look and think if you ever believe in the following love myths and rethink about it next time in future before you decide to bet your love life. Read more

Sex and Dating : How Long Should You Wait?

May 2, 2007 by  
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You just met him a few days ago, now he got your phone number. Then he asked you out for a date – from a simple walk, watching movie to a romantic candle light dinner. Less than one week you already know his best friend and now he wants you to get know all his friends closely. This is getting serious! You started to think. Does he really serious with me? Few weeks later, you become closer to him with his regular phone call and you’ve been accepting all his invitation to go out for almost every night which initiates your loving feeling and burning your desires to get know him deeper. He knows how to make you feel comfortable, desirable and passionate to the relationship. Cuddled on the dance floor, held hands over dinner and indulged in some heavy-duty, passionate kisses. It does generate great and strong feelings in you which make you think maybe he’s the one. After all, you think he’s perfect, he can’t stop telling you how wonderful you are and he won over your flat mate on first meeting.

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Taking your love to the next level

April 4, 2007 by  
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Desire for serious relationship but afraid to freak him out? Now you’re ready to dot with commitment but not sure whether your man feel the same way. It’s been few years you’re in relationship but he doesn’t seem to navigate and take you both forward – notch on more serious scale. Well, who doesn’t want to get closer to a man you crazy about? No want says a woman can’t speak out her mind and talk about the future first, but asking a man for commitment or tighter the bond is not an easy task. After all, many men are perfectly happy keeping things between the two of you the same… indefinitely. Any wrong words from you might scare him and make him change his mind. We all realized all this while it is men who make all those wooing, take a move and of course they think it’s also their responsibility to decide how or when they should go to the next level. However there’s time when women should take an action especially when it was something to do with commitment, responsibility and future. I didn’t say we can’t trust any men to take a move but sometimes we can’t wait too long for them to make up their mind. How about if they never think about it? So, why not give a try? You might be get hitch soon. Whose know? So how do you give your love a nudge without causing him to jump ship? Read more

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