Still waiting for your prince charming to sweep you off your feet and bring eternal tales? The story about everlasting love which sometimes influences the way you think about love and whatever you’re looking for in relationship. Why not? Everyone has their own dream, a thought of finding your true love and ride off into the sunset to live happily ever after with the one you love. The time you dream of lying in your prince charming arm and hoping to wake up next to him. But truth is – after that ride into the sunset, comes the morning after and the morning after that.

The reality never easy to accept – every relationship requires ongoing maintenance to keep it working. That’s where lots of budding romances start to hit the wall – not because they’re flawed but because of expectations that are completely unattainable. Sometimes what you believe in love is not exactly the right things – which give us misguided message about what we should expect and demand from love. So, take a deep look and think if you ever believe in the following love myths and rethink about it next time in future before you decide to bet your love life. (Continue Reading…)

You just met him a few days ago, now he got your phone number. Then he asked you out for a date – from a simple walk, watching movie to a romantic candle light dinner. Less than one week you already know his best friend and now he wants you to get know all his friends closely. This is getting serious! You started to think. Does he really serious with me? Few weeks later, you become closer to him with his regular phone call and you’ve been accepting all his invitation to go out for almost every night which initiates your loving feeling and burning your desires to get know him deeper. He knows how to make you feel comfortable, desirable and passionate to the relationship. Cuddled on the dance floor, held hands over dinner and indulged in some heavy-duty, passionate kisses. It does generate great and strong feelings in you which make you think maybe he’s the one. After all, you think he’s perfect, he can’t stop telling you how wonderful you are and he won over your flat mate on first meeting.

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Desire for serious relationship but afraid to freak him out? Now you’re ready to dot with commitment but not sure whether your man feel the same way. It’s been few years you’re in relationship but he doesn’t seem to navigate and take you both forward – notch on more serious scale. Well, who doesn’t want to get closer to a man you crazy about? No want says a woman can’t speak out her mind and talk about the future first, but asking a man for commitment or tighter the bond is not an easy task. After all, many men are perfectly happy keeping things between the two of you the same… indefinitely. Any wrong words from you might scare him and make him change his mind. We all realized all this while it is men who make all those wooing, take a move and of course they think it’s also their responsibility to decide how or when they should go to the next level. However there’s time when women should take an action especially when it was something to do with commitment, responsibility and future. I didn’t say we can’t trust any men to take a move but sometimes we can’t wait too long for them to make up their mind. How about if they never think about it? So, why not give a try? You might be get hitch soon. Whose know? So how do you give your love a nudge without causing him to jump ship? (Continue Reading…)

You saw someone who really arouses your attention and you just can’t keep your eyes out of him. Although it’s your first time meeting him, you knew that he’s the one - the guy of your dream and he’s everything you look for in a man. Before this you just see him from far but this time you’re very sure that he’s a man which you’re going to settle down with. Your heart races the moment your friends introduce him to you, some kind of nervous, excited - the feeling you never had before – you knew that you just fall into, “love at the first sight”. You’re crazy about him and want him to be yours, but how about him? There are so many questions here: Does he feel the same way as you did? Do you have a chance to posses his heart? What does it take to get him to notice you, let alone fall in love with you? Can it be possible, or is it only in films and novels that a woman can “set her cap” at a guy and then get him?

Well, most people don’t believe they can get their dream guy but there are some people who confidently that they can. How’s it would be? Does it depend on people personality, intellectuality, appearance or character? What do you think? To me, I believe each person does have their own taste but for sure, looks is not the main point. Although people pay more attention to beautiful girls who have a body to kill, don’t give up and surrender. You still have the chances to get his love. Even if you’re not stunning, it’s worth making the effort with your appearance. It will give you confidence and that’s what really counts. Other than that, communication is important too and it’s not only applicable in serious relationship. If you know how to make the conversation interesting, you won’t believe if after the meet he will ask you out for a date. But make sure you’re not over the line. (Continue Reading…)

In public eyes, she’s look pity and suffering. Everyone knew his man had been cheated on her. But, why until now she’s still standing by his side? In relationship, accepting your partner for who he is, are good thing but if his behaviours are more into flirting and affairs, would you continue stand by him? Maybe it’s okay to give him second chance if he regret for what he did and asking for forgiveness. But, if he takes advantage of your generosity, is it worthy to get heart broken for another infidelity? Some girls, so patient in maintaining their relationship to prove how good they are in keeping their guy stay beside them. No matter how bad things get, they just can’t let their cheating guys go.

The question is, why? Does it for life warranty, financial support, dignity, selfishness or love? No matter how much we guess the reason why and feel sorry for them, for sure, these girls have their own point of view regarding their man. However, staying with man who continuously betrays you in long-term is not healthy. It may causes to depression, boredom or mentality problem if you keep pushing yourself into the unfair relationship. Why annihilate your future and changes in finding a better man just for one cheating guy? So, now, should you forgive him or, walk away, fast? (Continue Reading…)