Life Goes Beyond Expectations
If we’re given an opportunity to choose what we like to do in this life, it must be a pleasure to everyone. No problems to worry about; definite future and enjoying happy life everyday. But, how many of us had that such of opportunity and being lucky living in that perfect world? It’s maybe 1:1000 or more to live in the world that following to our needs and enthusiasm. Who’s care? Believe it or not, almost of us don’t have any chance to do what we like or desires most in our life. Our fate bring us to the other side of what and where we’re going to be; given us no space to choose whatever we dream of. Some are lucky and blissful; others have to follow their life fate – have choices but can’t choose.
Most of us have to work hard in order to fulfill our heart desires – but not all our effort produce beautiful fruits. Some people didn’t do anything but their life always goes easily and at the end fate again to be in question. What do you expect your life going to be? Do you like what you’re doing right now? Or you did it because you have to do – to survive or you don’t have other way to climb over to your destiny. Read more
Worry too much? How to stop worrying what everyone thinks…mind free.
Do you ever feel worrying about what peoples may say about you; things you do, things your wear, or worrying about any negative outcome in most aspect of your life especially things involving you and anyone that close to you? I want to say yes to this question. To me, this worry feelings always haunted if an unpleasant event has just happened and it involved something or someone very important; worrying if people judging or criticizing me, during interview sections, when exam is around the corner or when I think I’m making mistakes and many more inconsequential things. It’s seems to be like a natural response of the mind to disagreeable events that have happened or have some likelihood of happening. I think everyone in this world ever felt worrying what everyone else might think about themselves and the worst is when we spend a lot of times thinking about what other think even about the past. It’s was a ridiculous response but that’s what always happen. I’ve been read somewhere and they say it is likely a kind of habits. But why is that? Read more
Life fate – what you can do about it?
Life is full with surprised. We always desire wanting for everything to be perfect as we always dream of during childhood mostly; but sometimes it happens the way we never expected at all — didn’t get your dreams career, don’t have a wonderful boyfriends or girlfriends, or didn’t get a perfect body that you always wanted for even you always work hard to reach your target. Life is just like a box of chocolates. We’re never know how it like or taste until we open the box. Most of all, story of human life goes to the other side of what we wanted it to be. That’s a fact.
Well, there’s so many things that happen to our life, and it is always an optimist people will take it as a challenge. But, how about if unfortunate things often happen and start to ruins your goal? You must be feeling very upset, sad, or sometimes get mad, don’t you? Or you just accept it as your luck? Oooo maybe today is not my luck, maybe there’s another times. I don’t think so. And the next five years later, do you think you’ll say the same words to yourself when you still live a life like before or maybe even worse? Are you always can be this positives all the time? Only you have the answers for this questions. Keep waiting and waiting until one day you realized that there’s nothing anymore, to waiting for. Your journey ended without any progress into your life. Read more
Life is so unfair; who’s to be blame? Others or…..?
When everything goes wrong in your life; failed in your finals exam, your car broke down at the middle of the night, dumped by your boyfriends, didn’t get job you dream of, your computer died or get fired because of other mistakes. What do you do when nothing is going your way? Are you going to blame another human being, GOD, or the whole universe just because all the difficult things happen into your life? Do you ever ask, Why all this happen to me? And you always think what happen in your life not your fault and blame other is the best way to settle it down. It’s very hard to accept responsibility for your own actions don’t you?
To me, anything turns other way in my life; I just accept it as a faith. GOD wants it to be that way as life always full of surprise. But as feeble human beings, sometimes I took an easy way just by drop a dozen reason to blame others. And I realized that sometimes things happen just because of my own action and not others mistakes. I can’t just blamed others because I know whatever happen around me everyday it’s all started from me, myself! But sometimes life is too hard and mind is too weak; Unpredictable bad things come to life with no reason, no warning even explanation and in just a second ruin my life. So, what I have to do? I’m not deserved these. I’m a good people and always work hard. How GOD allow these things happen to me? What I do wrong? This is must her/his fault! Everything happens because of him/her. There’s no doubt! I know it from the started. Read more
What’s your personality? Is your personality damaging your health?
Every body has a different personality. But do you ever think that your personality effect a lot to your life? How we perceive the world, our attitudes, thoughts and feelings are all part of our personality — and if you have healthy personalities so you are able to cope with normal stresses and have not trouble forming relationships with family, friends and co-workers. But what if you lose control as life is not easy to live? Every time you lose your temper because the photocopier jams, indulge in the morning session, or refuse a party invite because you hate making small talk, you could be increasing your risk of illness. There’s mounting evidence that the way we express our emotions and relate to the world affects our health. Based on research, work stress could double the likelihood of death from heart disease, while a limited social life to premature death. It sucks right?
Your personality doesn’t just affect the conditions you’re likely to suffer either — it also determines how you respond to treatments and which ones you opt for in the first place, according to recent research. You want to know your personality profiles and how yours is affecting how you feel? Check it out! Read more