Do you ever feel worrying about what peoples may say about you; things you do, things your wear, or worrying about any negative outcome in most aspect of your life especially things involving you and anyone that close to you? I want to say yes to this question. To me, this worry feelings always haunted if an unpleasant event has just happened and it involved something or someone very important; worrying if people judging or criticizing me, during interview sections, when exam is around the corner or when I think I’m making mistakes and many more inconsequential things. It’s seems to be like a natural response of the mind to disagreeable events that have happened or have some likelihood of happening. I think everyone in this world ever felt worrying what everyone else might think about themselves and the worst is when we spend a lot of times thinking about what other think even about the past. It’s was a ridiculous response but that’s what always happen. I’ve been read somewhere and they say it is likely a kind of habits. But why is that? (Continue Reading…)

Life is full with surprised. We always desire wanting for everything to be perfect as we always dream of during childhood mostly; but sometimes it happens the way we never expected at all — didn’t get your dreams career, don’t have a wonderful boyfriends or girlfriends, or didn’t get a perfect body that you always wanted for even you always work hard to reach your target. Life is just like a box of chocolates. We’re never know how it like or taste until we open the box. Most of all, story of human life goes to the other side of what we wanted it to be. That’s a fact.

Well, there’s so many things that happen to our life, and it is always an optimist people will take it as a challenge. But, how about if unfortunate things often happen and start to ruins your goal? You must be feeling very upset, sad, or sometimes get mad, don’t you? Or you just accept it as your luck? Oooo maybe today is not my luck, maybe there’s another times. I don’t think so. And the next five years later, do you think you’ll say the same words to yourself when you still live a life like before or maybe even worse? Are you always can be this positives all the time? Only you have the answers for this questions. Keep waiting and waiting until one day you realized that there’s nothing anymore, to waiting for. Your journey ended without any progress into your life. (Continue Reading…)

When everything goes wrong in your life; failed in your finals exam, your car broke down at the middle of the night, dumped by your boyfriends, didn’t get job you dream of, your computer died or get fired because of other mistakes. What do you do when nothing is going your way? Are you going to blame another human being, GOD, or the whole universe just because all the difficult things happen into your life? Do you ever ask, Why all this happen to me? And you always think what happen in your life not your fault and blame other is the best way to settle it down. It’s very hard to accept responsibility for your own actions don’t you?

To me, anything turns other way in my life; I just accept it as a faith. GOD wants it to be that way as life always full of surprise. But as feeble human beings, sometimes I took an easy way just by drop a dozen reason to blame others. And I realized that sometimes things happen just because of my own action and not others mistakes. I can’t just blamed others because I know whatever happen around me everyday it’s all started from me, myself! But sometimes life is too hard and mind is too weak; Unpredictable bad things come to life with no reason, no warning even explanation and in just a second ruin my life. So, what I have to do? I’m not deserved these. I’m a good people and always work hard. How GOD allow these things happen to me? What I do wrong? This is must her/his fault! Everything happens because of him/her. There’s no doubt! I know it from the started. (Continue Reading…)

Every body has a different personality. But do you ever think that your personality effect a lot to your life? How we perceive the world, our attitudes, thoughts and feelings are all part of our personality — and if you have healthy personalities so you are able to cope with normal stresses and have not trouble forming relationships with family, friends and co-workers. But what if you lose control as life is not easy to live? Every time you lose your temper because the photocopier jams, indulge in the morning session, or refuse a party invite because you hate making small talk, you could be increasing your risk of illness. There’s mounting evidence that the way we express our emotions and relate to the world affects our health. Based on research, work stress could double the likelihood of death from heart disease, while a limited social life to premature death. It sucks right?

Your personality doesn’t just affect the conditions you’re likely to suffer either — it also determines how you respond to treatments and which ones you opt for in the first place, according to recent research. You want to know your personality profiles and how yours is affecting how you feel? Check it out! (Continue Reading…)

Do you ever feels you look like you’ve got two left feet when you slip into a pair of stilettos? Walking in extremely high heels is not easy, and will require lots of practice and training especially if you are new users. Even not average woman (or girl) will need high heels every day, however, there are times you have to wear them and this required some skills; know what height is considered extremely high and who would be able to both wear and walk in them. Does walking on four-inch heels or more seem like walking on nails? With these easy tips, you’ll be strutting your stuff in no time:

Tip #1 PRACTICE. If you’re a newbie first try broad, two-and-a-half inch heels to build some confidence before strapping on those stilettos. The first step in learning to walk in these heels is learning to stand. Once you’re confident standing, try walking a few steps. As you get more confident, walk slowly back and forth, and try turning in different directions, even side-stepping, always concentrating on your balance. Practice walking in them at home as you watch TV, or make yourself a cup of tea to get used to the way they feel on your feet. (Continue Reading…)