Hard to believe and imagine? But it’s really happen in few relationships where men really don’t want to have sex. I know what move in your mind now. Does he homo type or sick @#%$&? Whatever….Maybe….However there’re other reason that you might want to know. You know the drill right? With the exception of a few monk types who have meditated their libidos into submission, there’s not a man alive who wouldn’t jump at the chance to do the horizontal cha-cha. Driven by man dicks and aroused by everything from a brisk walk in corduroy to Nigella Lawson, the theory goes that man in possession of a heat-seeking moisture missile that’s continually primed and ready for action. So why would a man choose not to make jiggy when you put forward the invitation. Well, as they say in classics, it’s not you, it’s him – mostly.

Reason #1 Thanks But No

At first, this is going to sound as preposterous as the words, “And the Oscar for Best Actress goes to … Britney Spears” but hear me out. After a year or seven of slutting it up with any woman who would fall for his insincere compliments, a certain proportion of men realise that they have been shoring up their crumbling self-esteem by accumulating bed mates and decide to do things differently for a change. One of the revelations they come to is that just because a woman wants to sleep with them, it doesn’t mean they have to take up the offer. He’s had his fill of shallow, recreational sex and is now prepared to wait for a real connection. Don’t be discouraged by the fact that he doesn’t identify you as a sign of respect. Which will be easier to do when you consider his alternative: Bedding you just because he could! (Continue Reading…)