You always work hard and put a lots of effort to keep your relationship survives but keep end up with farewell. You’ve been hurt for many times, your man change to be self-centered, insincere and his love become faded. You just can’t find what exactly mistakes you’ve been done makes your relationship always stuck half way. Do you come on too strong, let men walk all over you or seem too eager to please? In order to find and keep love, we always make mistakes over and over without understanding what actually love needs to grown healthy. And sometimes, we didn’t realize that what we do to make better the relationship is actually the main reasons to failure. Whether you’re still finding for true love, in love or on your way to maintain your relationship, make sure you know what it needs and don’t’ – doing too much or too little will let you to broken heart again and again. Here are the most common romance habits that stand in the way of lasting love. Try to avoid them from start and your next relationship will be on your terms… (Continue Reading…)

Every couple wish for happy and long lasting relationship. But how many of them succeed and what is their secret for being together no matter how long they’ve been together or how many times they have to face arguments. Some says it depend on fate? But do you think it’s fate when your relationship never work no matter what you do – or you just don’t understand what a happy couples needs to live happy together? Ask yourself? All the time you’ve been with your partner, how many times both of you do something together or holding hands while working together? If you want to say you always strolling arm-in-arm on the street in your early relationships, just forget about it. How about now? How about three or five month later, did both of you still watching movies, eat, play or travel together? (Continue Reading…)

Fall in love is one of the greatest feelings we ever have in this earth. We all know that being love-rich is all about investment. Whether you spend too much energy or too much effort – whether you’re single or attached, balancing the amount of love in your life can be the most challenging event to go through. As a single woman – of course you’re trying to find somebody to fulfill your love life and for women who already have their love ones, for sure they do the best to maintain warm and lasting relationship.

Balance your love life is the ways how you control and manage your relationship, but whether you put too much, moderate or too less effort it’s all depends on your considerations. It’s not easy when you have to manage your love life and at the same time you have to think about yourself and your future. You’re afraid to fail, or fail again and worry that everything you do is worthless, wasting your time and energy. Maybe you feel worry or unsafe, but you need a right amount of effort and appropriate ways to invest into your love life. You don’t have to sacrifice everything to get relationship you desire for – just understand how much you have locked away to spend on love…or save for a brand-new guy. Here’s some idea how to change your love destiny, with hardly any effort. (Continue Reading…)

Both of you love each other and plan to be together. You think he’s the perfect mate…but is he? You know each other very well – his deficiency and advantages. But sometimes, very simple innocuous things can ruins your relationship without you realized. You maybe don’t care because it’s not really a big deal and you can handle it some times. But do you? Normally people disregard simple things that happen around them assume that it wouldn’t distract their relationship. Actually problems come and start from unexpected things which you always think nothing to worry about. Sometimes, things you like about him could be harmful to both of you much more if those things you already know have potentials could be diseases and destroy your relationship. But, because you love him, you deny the truth and try to cover everything with his love. You want to give a try with hope one day you will find the solutions to all the feebleness. Nothing wrong with trying to improve others but does he willing to changes just because of you? Because, if not you have to take a responsibility by yourself. However, here’s some questions to answer which can help you clear of unexpected land mines. (Continue Reading…)

We fall in love with whom, when or where, all out of our control. And we can’t stop where it goes and how it works then because love always comes unexpected. Me, myself had experiences the beautiful and painful of love long distance. When is the last time you heard of a successful long distance relationship? Well, nobody can be blame if those relationship going to work of fail. “Many people choose to give a long distance relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decisions to make and if it even stands a chance,” says Alina Ruigrok, a relationship expert. I totally agree with her and I was one among maybe thousands of women who put their love into the biggest risk with hope everything going to be as usual and nothing to worry about with a little bit intention to see how deep and strong our love are.

Want to know more? Well, it’s a very sad memory to remember, but I really like to share how I go through all the difficult times and what I do to maintain the relationship. It’s not easy to keep your love alive over great distance: Distance can make people change, absences bring to a lonely heart and separation creates lies and breaks trust. So many obstacles to go through when you’re stay far from each other and of course, it not just strong love can make your relationship succeed but more: You have to put more effort and sometimes have to make some sacrifice to make it works. The question is, is it distance and being apart become the problems or it just ourselves who makes it to be a good reason for separation when your love become faint or you already find another love? (Continue Reading…)