Hooo..hoooo..it’s Christmas again. Year of 2006 is near to the end, means New Year of 2007 is on the way the beginning of new hopes for life. How fast times are running up - without I realize, its December again the most awaiting month for everyone. Yeahh end of the year sales is everywhere, and for all shop-holic out there, this is a very, very perfect times to shop all the goodies you’ve been desires for all the year and you can get all of it with an amazing prizes.

Well, to me nothing much on my mind no shopping or partying, just hoping to have a simple and meaningful celebration for both Christmas and New Year. Actually, I felt a little bit disappointed because I can’t spend end of year festive with my family and it’s been a year I didn’t going back to Sarawak but I really hope they do understand why and I promise to make it next year. I really miss all of them…a lot. (Continue Reading…)

What type of boyfriend you desire for? Of course somebody that always gives you a support in whatever you do, love you with all his heart, always there for you and never ever put you down no matter what. If your boyfriend finds fault in almost everything you do, can you still find happiness in the relationship or should you bail out now and salvage what’s left of your self-esteem? When is the last time he says something to compliment who you are or reinforce why he loves you so much? Can’t remember? Then consider the flipside when was the last time your boyfriend had a go at you? If the list of negative comments is so long it’s shocking to contemplate, it could be time to take stock of your relationship and what effect it’s having on your emotional wellbeing.

The fall-out can be enormous causing you to feel depressed, pass up career opportunities, and start self-abusive behaviors like starvation dieting and generally lose all your joie de vivre. Is it pity? So, why on earth would you stay if he never has a good word to say about you, right? Often a putdown boyfriend is so successful at character assassination he leaves you feeling hopeless and unattractive and you fear nobody else would want you. Though a controlling boyfriend may constantly point out your shortfalls, he doesn’t really want you to change, what he wants is to have as much power over you as he can get away with wielding, says women’s counselor, Tatum Cummings. To get that total control and keep it, he use a number of techniques some subtle, some forceful all designed to keep you under his thumb.

To all women out there, if you recognize any of these in your love life, rethink the romance or at the very least give your boyfriend an ultimatum that you’ll walk unless he starts mending his ways. Don’t be scared of losing him, he’s not the only guy in this world - so be dare stand up on your own feet. Here are some tips to watch out for: (Continue Reading…)

Sorry~

I didn’t remember how he’s look like, what he’s name and when I know him. When he approaches me and says that he know me, I’m so surprised. Do I know you? That’s the first thing I ask him. I felt very bad, but I really didn’t recognize who he is. The worse thing is, he approach me in my blog says that I know this person, and asking me to visit his blog. I click to his blog and saw all his pictures there and trying to remember again and again. Did I really know this person or he’s just trying to fool me around? I’m a little bit worry, somebody trying to playing a game. Very funny!

Sorry~

I’d tried really hard to recall but nothing coming up to my mind. I’m thinking. What should I tell him? Maybe I should say Sorry, I don’t know you. Arghhhh this is ridiculous. But you all know what? I’ve been asking him a stupid question May you introduce yourself detail please? Unbelievable! Yaaaaa .and what makes me felt guilty is, when he says that he’s my childhood friends: same secondary school primary 1-5. I didn’t remember how close our friendship but why I didn’t remember him if he still can recognized me? So embarrassing. (Continue Reading…)

Men from Mars and women from Venus . Men and women are proven to be different. As a woman, sometimes it’s really hard to understand their behavior at one time you think you know them, but suddenly they can change and be a different person like you never know them before; feel like stranger. They always act opposite to what they say the behavior is so confusing. That’s why a lot of women all the times always give incorrect assumptions about men. Not our fault! Its guy: Full of mysteries, secrets and surprises drive women crazy, broke their heart, but still rule the world. So, there must be something inside them we don’t know; something special that buried deep inside their heart. From the first, people already put men in the highest; to be leader, known as strong and courage, so until nowadays they try to maintain who they are. But we all never know behind that mask there’s more and more to explore something to be proud of or NOT. So, to know who they really are, we have to dig the well! Here are 10 most common misconceptions we have about the opposite sex.

~ Women are more intuitive than man. Entire books have been written on the subject. Songs have been sung about it. Movies have been made around it. But actually there’s no such thing as women’s intuition . I’m not sure about this, but scientific studies dispelled the myth that women are more intuitive than men ages ago. However, some research does suggest that women pay more attention to detail than men do. That’s the reason why: and this attention to detail that makes it seem like women have more intuitive than men, because they notice the subtler signals in a situation that men usually miss…So, mind reading? (Continue Reading…)